A wedding creates a family. It doesn’t recognize a family - there was no family, before the wedding.
An adoption creates a familial relationship where there was none before. The child belonged to no one, until the adoption ceremony took place. It is during the adoption ceremony that he becomes a son - that she becomes a daughter.
Yes. And that is why neither of these things are analgous to making disciples. A disciple is not made by a ceremony, a ritual, a contract, a judgment, a legal decree, nor a sacrament.
A disciple is made by a commitment, and commitment preceedes all of the above.
I’m not sure why you like to use language not used by Jesus or the Apostles,
Why? In part because we are talking about: “What is a disciple?”, and Jesus never actually defines that term in scripture. He only mentions that there is a cost to those who seek to continue as his disciples.
When Jesus tells us to make disiples in Matthew 28, I don’t think that he lists baptizing and teaching as either the exclusive nor the guaranteed means of making a disciple. I just don’t see that in the text itself. So, then one has to go outside the text to find the answers to “What is a disciple?” and “Wow are disciples made?”.
I’m not saying that the answer doesn’t need to be consistent with scripture, I think it does. But I don’t think we actually have the answer explicitly stated in scripture, so we must infer it from what is said, what is not said, and what it appears was already understood from the common usage of the terms in the language of the day. And the common understanding of disciple was that of student, any sort of student, but particularly one who was attached to the master. And that is why I use such terminology, because only that type of terminology makes any sense in the context of what Jesus said. Speaking of believers does NOT (except of course for those who because they believe in Jesus and his work chose to attach themselves to him and become known to the world as his pupils/followers).
In any event, for the infants, you make a commitment to raising them in the church and “in doing so have them baptized.” Your commitment to do that, of course, says nothing of their actually ever coming to faith in Christ.
granted
So if they never do, what was the purpose of their baptism?
Obedience.
That’s it primarily. But I can give a few other reasons as well.
- As you alluded to, I do believe that it makes it more likely that they will come to saving faith later.
- A Christian is going to not just give himself (his person) to Christ, he is going to give all of himself, everything he owns, all his possessions and turn them over to God as well. He is going to hold nothing back. In that context of the culture of the first century this included all the members of one’s household – one’s slaves, one’s wife, one’s children. So, these too would be given over to Christ. And how? Well, one would sprinkle some holy water on the doorposts and lintel of the house, and one would baptize one’s family members.
I am trying to understand your position, vis-a-vis Christ’s instructions in Matt. 28:19, and your belief that the “disciples” He instructed to be baptized need not be believers.
I appreciate that. And I appreciate the manner in which you have continued to keep the conversation focused on the issue.
I think there is one other thing that I see that changes my approach to the passage compared to yours. It’s a point of logic. Let me illustrate by changing the terms so as to remove some of the baggage that we might each be carrying.
The owner of the veterinary was leaving and said:
“Keep dogs from getting lost. Sell microchips and teach them how to use a leash.”
One could obviously see that selling a microchip put in the dog and teaching them how to use a leash might help with the first goal of keeping dogs from getting lost.
But there are other things that could keep dogs from getting lost: building fences, tattooing them, having them wear collars with tags. These things are not excluded because of the above instructions. Also not excluded, selling microchips to people who wish to keep their cats from getting lost.
And what is the order that one does these things in. Well, one might think of the keeping dogs from getting lost as a product of the other two, but it is also important that they not be lost before attempting the other two. Ever try to put a microchip in a lost dog? I don’t think it can be done. And once it is done, it doesn’t mean that the dog can’t get lost. You just have a better chance of finding it, but no guarantee.
So, too, I think that discipleship, baptism and teaching are all related. But don’t think that they have a predetermined order to them as much as we might at first intutitively think they do.