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**Would you mind explaining why it “sickens” you when people believe that men and women are not equally in charge?I most certainly believe it. And it really sickens me when people believe otherwise.
Limerick
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**Would you mind explaining why it “sickens” you when people believe that men and women are not equally in charge?I most certainly believe it. And it really sickens me when people believe otherwise.
**Hey, Tom, get your facts straight! My comment to the newcomer was directly aimed at her declaration that men and women are equally in charge. I said nothing to her (?) about abortion.Hi, Cecilatherese,
As a new member, let me welcome you to the list.
Don’t let Ms Limrick bother you … she comes out to bark and snap at those who profess that innocent life is precious and is not to be wasted.
You are on the right road and do not be discouraged…
God bless
I would not kill David, but after allowing him much counsel and adequate time to consider his actions, allow him to kill himself. I killed my self once rather hastily (obviously survived) and once having the time reconsidered my position, I doubt I will kill my self again. But I believe we all have the right to destroy our selves however we choose, It is just that we make that decision in a sound and reasonable way and then feel free to smoke and drink and sky dive etc…Hi, Abbadon,
I work as a Registered Nurse in a psychiatric hospital. I regularly encounter people who have either threatened or attempted suicide.
I would do what I regularly do, and this is provide appropriate help for depression. I would no more kill him then I would kill you (or Ms Limrick for that matter as I reach over and pull her chain…) Serioulsy, depression is not an uncommon problem amongst those that appear perfectly formed and physically fit
It has been my experience that most people simply fail to see the options that are available to them - like the ‘crisis pregnancy’ issues that Planned Parenthood stalk and instead of offering multiple options and helpful counseling - they go for the $$$ and abort. There are also a lot of post-abortion (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) patients with major depression who have attempted suicide.
But, honestly, David is not the issue. The issue is us: you, me and everyone that tries to sit in life-and-death judgment on people who have genetic disabilities. What happens to our humanity as we snuff out theirs? Do you think the Nazis enhanced their humanity by murdering the mentally and physically defective? Look how they quickly spiraled down with their philosophy of death to those who they did not agree with in areas that they defined.
It just does not end with killing David - or, encouraging or allowing David to kill himself. Just where do you think you fit into this area? The easy - and mistaken - area is to try and exempt yourself from responsibility with something like, “Hey, he pulled the trigger, don’t blame me for getting him the gun - he asked me to!” Even the State would see you as an accessory to suicide! What a bummer, ehBut, that is minimal. The action is in the section of your own soul that you killed by getting him the gun and encouraging his suicidal throughts and actions. In a way, you are just as dead!
I wouldn’t encourage, it is Davids burden to carry living life like that, not mine. I wouldn’t encourage him to live, I wouldn’t encourage him to die, I would just encourage him to always consider his actions very carefully, especially ones you cannot often take back.God bless
See not all atheists are pro-abortion."It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so that you may live as you wish
~Mother Theresa~
that is all i have to say and im seventeen![]()
**Hey, Tom, get your facts straight! My comment to the newcomer was directly aimed at her declaration that men and women are equally in charge. I said nothing to her (?) about abortion.
Limerick**
**Hi, Ms Limerick
The two facts you seem to have ignored are these:
1- The title of this thread, and
2- The words you used in responding
My facts are quite straight, thank you.
God bless
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Okaaaaay . . .
The title of the thread is “Is abortion ever justified?” As the thread progressed it drifted a bit off-topic with the newcomer’s comment that “men and women are equally in charge”. I responded to this but certainly not at length and not with any intention of completely derailing the thread. I asked ceceliatherese (and not you) for an explanation as to why she believes men and women are equally in charge, and in her post #508 she declares, “I most certainly believe it. And it really sickens me when people believe otherwise.” I hardly consider this an explanation of her position.
Now, here is where you ride to the rescue in post #512, telling her that I “bark and snap at those who profess that innocent life is precious and not to be wasted.” This is a lie, Tom. Any life, innocent or not, is still God-given, precious and not to be wasted. The fact that I support choice does not mean that I recruit women to procure abortions. I recognize and honor the fact that, as the Catholic Church herself teaches, we are all endowed with free will, to live our lives according to the moral codes we subscribe to. Some fall far short of the bar set so high by Catholicism. I am one of those. But we are all individually, singularly responsible for our actions. I do not incite to abort, I do not advise to abort. I respect men and women enough to give them the room to make their own decisions and then be fully culpable for said decisions. When I do bark it’s because I disagree with someone here (which is allowed, Tom), and I make every effort to substantiate claims, quote sources, and be as charitable as the situation allows.
So, here you are on post # 512, quoting ceceliatherese’s position that she “certainly believe[s that men and women are equally in charge] and it sickens [her] when people believe otherwise.” You tell her she is on the right road and not to be discouraged! What else would a seemingly controlling man tell a seemingly meek woman? Fits right in the pocket, doesn’t it?
So where is your problem? I don’t understand why you’re getting all over me just because I find another poster’s attitude antiquated. And throughout the 500+ posts I have addressed the topic as articulately and responsibly as I have been able. Disagree if you will. But don’t sling your muck so carelessly. Choose your battles more carefully. I’m not your enemy.
Limerick **
Thanks, TomHi, Cecilatherese,
As a new member, let me welcome you to the list.
Don’t let Ms Limrick bother you … she comes out to bark and snap at those who profess that innocent life is precious and is not to be wasted.
You are on the right road and do not be discouraged…
God bless
Yes, I understand what you’re saying, and I think those are terrible things, but what I am talking about is that (at least in the US) women are given equal pay, the same job oppurtunities, etc.You live in the USA where things may be different (on the surface) but you must remember that the days of slavery have not ended.
What about human traficking? What about women of Asia and Africa? You must think about that.
Cinette
I should have said “when people dont believe men and women should be equally in charge”, sorry, I just noticed it now.**Would you mind explaining why it “sickens” you when people believe that men and women are not equally in charge?
Limerick
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**I should have said “when people dont believe men and women should be equally in charge”, sorry, I just noticed it now.Well, I think that it’s a very bad thing when people think men should be the only ones in public life, etc. and women should be more in the background. I mean, I know some who believe that, and it just really frustrates me. Sorry if you misunderstood my point.
God bless**
Dig this**, Tom!
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**Yes, I understand what you’re saying, and I think those are terrible things, but what I am talking about is that (at least in the US) women are given equal pay, the same job oppurtunities, etc.
Yea, and those are things we need to work against.**
Women are not** given equal pay for equal work in the United States today.
"In 2009, President Obama signed the Lily Ledbetter Fair Pay Restoration Act, which allows victims of pay discrimination to file a complaint with the government against their employer within 180 days of their last paycheck. Previously, victims were only allowed 180 days from the date of the first unfair paycheck. This Act is named after a former employee of Goodyear who alleged that she was paid 15-40 percent less than her male counterparts, which was later found to be accurate. President Obama has vowed to reduce the wage gap between the genders: women currently make approximately 80 cents for every dollar that men earn.
****"Women have made enormous progress in the workforce since the Equal Pay Act, but the stubborn fact remains that four-and-a-half decades later the basic goal of the act has not been realized."
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~ Borgna Brunner, "The Wage Gap: A History of Pay Inequity and the Equal Pay Act"
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For more information about this disparity, you may visit:
nwlc.org/pdf/ObtainingEqual%20PayandJobOpportunitiesAug08.pdf
If the link fails, type it into your address bar.
Limerick
Originally Posted by Abbadon
For me personally it’s about person hood. What does it mean to be a human begin? It is not fingerprints, a beating hear or DNA, for me it is a brain and consciousness. Any point before that it is a collection of cells. Organs don’t make a human person. I just don’t see humanoid organic life forms as a person, until they have a brain or something that functions like one, whatever enables thought.
You think therefore you are.
What confuses me is how the anti-abortion side always portrays blastocysts+ as a child, I just don’t see it. But I’m sure if I thought that way I would be anti-abortion to.
First of all your last judgement could be wrong.Regardless there is always at least 1 justification for abortion, when the conception endangers the mother or both, then the mother has to be given the choice. We cannot choose for her.
I would disagree with you here because in this instance my stance in utilitarian, kind of, the mother can choose to die of course, that’s her choice.First of all your last judgement could be wrong.
If the mother is at risk, but not the infant, the pregnancy must be permitted to come to term, because the infant has an equal RIGHT to life as the mother.
As an FYI: I am [was actaully] "an orphan. I spent all of my formative years in a Catholic Orphans Home. I think I’m normal?![]()
I was struct by what you said [highlighted] and I wonder if you really understand what it is that you say you believe.
No their not, that’s like saying electrons, photons, proteins, gravity, black holes, amino acids, ions and no doubt thousands of other things (especially physics and chemistry), are spiritual things.Mind, intellect and freewill are all “SPIRITUAL THINGS”. We can’t see, touch or smell them yet we can prove their existence.
Well actually neuroscience science shows us that a pysical brain is directly tied to mental faculties. Several studies all support this, split brain patients, specific brain partial damage and brain deformation. So I do not know what science you are talking about. Everything I understand about neurons and the brain (that is not alot, it’s not my field), helps me to understand that brain matter (some form of matter) is all that is needed for a functioning mind. So far as we know. A good example of this would be A.I , shouldn’t be to far away and that uses silicon for its brain.Because we KNOW scientifically that something " can only share what something has" and CANNOT share what “something does not have” we reach a logical conclusion that these spiritual THINGS cannot come from, that is, be generated, from human matter.
So as not to change your topic I’ll end that point here.
I do not care much for spiritual things, unless it is in the next piece of fiction I entertain my self with. And I don’t care much for humanity, in that to consider my species special or great just because of the genetic code we are comprised of (I do think we are pretty awesome because of the achievements we have made and the awesome way in which we seem to be going). I try to use as much of an objective standard as I can and this is the only one I can really consider. Higher functioning thought, doesn’t have to be consciousness just higher reason and thought processes. What facilitates this in humans? A brain. So until this begins to form I’m okay with elective abortions, after that there would need to be serious medical reasons. In an ideal world you would never have to force a woman to carry a baby that she doesn’t want to, hopefully in my future perfect we can just grow babies in artificial wombs, ideally we would be able to control our reproductive cycle completely and without negative side effects. Then there would be no more unwanted babies.You are precisely correct, in that it is “these SPIRITUAL THINGS” that make humanity, humanity!
Which god does this? What evidence do you have for your claim? When does this implantation occur? If this event occurs at conception what about parthenegons, chimeras and twins? What about all the conceived zygotes that are naturally aborted by the woman in her period for some biological reason?What you do not acknowledge is the origin and source of these Spiritual THINGS, which HAS TO BE be Spiritual. I choose to call this “source” God. and God implants each of these SPIRITUAL GIFTS at the very instant of conception, as they become an essential part of “BEING” from the begaining. Indeed, one cannot be “human” without these gifts.
Killing 4 - 10 000 cells isn’t murder, I think sometimes it counts as an amputation or showering, I wonder how many cells die when you get a virus. There has to be something more than from the point of conception, their are so many flaws with saying that is when a human is…And that friend is why abortion that has as its purpose and primary intent, distruction of “the blob” [its a baby!] is always MURDER!