When Galileo proposed his heliocentric view of our solar system he got some things right (yes, the Earth moves around the sun), but he also got some things wrong. Specifically, he asserted that the orbits of the planets were circles, because circles were perfect forms, and clearly God would choose the perfect over the imperfect in his works of creation. I think this is what you’re doing in insisting that God would not choose evolution as a means of creating man. If man was created by God, why would it matter what process he chose? Is man any less his creation?
As to the possibility of man not being created by a process of evolution, I think this concern was addressed in my response to Rau about the effect Darwinism, and why Darwinism is such an attractive theory to disbelievers.
If Darwinism (neo-Darwinism, the modern synthesis, …) is true then it is a strong argument against divine intervention, which in fact explains a large amount of the resistance to suggestions that other mechanisms may be involved. That said, there are significant questions that have been raised, and significant scientific finding that suggest all is not well within the Darwinian stronghold.
The problem with rejecting Darwinism for theological reasons is not just that you put yourself ever further out on the fringe of the debate, but that you make it all the more difficult for contrary scientific findings to be taken seriously as well, and this is a major problem.
You’ve seen comments from Rossum about a process known as Horizontal Gene Transfer, where whole genetic elements are transferred between species. According to him this is “no big deal”. It is no big deal now because the process has been confirmed (and has been safely defined as ‘within the parameters of Darwinism’), but it was a huge concern when it was first proposed, and it was so precisely because it appeared to challenge Darwinism. So strongly was this idea rejected by the Darwinists that the scientist (Barbara McClintock) who discovered the process in the 1940’s was by 1957 completely discouraged from publishing anything at all about her work…until she received the Nobel Prize for it.
It is not you but the Darwinists who are challenged by science.