I personally do not like modern dress styles. I imagine it was just as hot and uncomfortable to dress modestly in Jesus’ day as it is today, especially in the climate he lived in. What passes as modest today to me is not modest at all but indicative of how far we have fallen as a Christian community. Being middle-aged means that you missed the 1940s and 1950s where most Christian women did dress what I call modestly. Beginning in the mid-1950s came hot pants and short shorts which ushered in the 1960’s sexual revolution and it’s been downhill ever since. The more immodest dress trends become the more inured we tend to become to it. When I am in church I tend to close my eyes a lot so as not to be distracted or tempted by much of the dress styles that abound.
The greatest person who ever lived is on the altar at the consecration and some people come to this momentous event dressed like it was a Saturday afternoon picnic in the park. My guideline is, dress modestly and neatly. If all one has is a pair of jeans, fine, but if possible, men should wear a pair of slacks, and women, an outfit that covers their bodies, and that includes sleeves, no plunging necklines, and a modest-length dress (1940 it was below the knee, 1950 it was at the knee, 1960 it went above the knee, and where it is now is anyone’s guess), or slacks, and avoid tight-fitting clothes. Those who want to dress modestly will be able to find modest clothing, but I agree that the majority of clothing offered for women today makes it a real chore; the designers are definitely not in the business to satisfy Christian values. I doubt that many women, except those as old as I am, will agree with me because the commercial world has been allowed to dictate what women will wear and has redefined modesty to something totally unrecognizable to anyone from the mid-20th century. Jen, I don’t think the traditional folks you mentioned are wrong, but for anyone born after, say, 1955, I can understand that it may be a difficult thing to grasp. We are to a great degree the product of our times and traditionally-minded Catholics go against the flow. Also, I see things from a man’s point of view, which I am sure is far different from that of a woman. Just my two cents.