Is it OK to be truly happy living in a world where more than 9,500 innocent children starve to death each and every day?

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This world is a vale of tears. Any happiness in this world is fleeting. For my own part, I experience joy quite frequently, but it is always bittersweet, and I know that I will only be truly happy in heaven with God. It is hard to be happy when I know that others are suffering from deprivation and want and also that there are some people who are not with me whom I miss and want to be with me.
 
If we were aware God is with us at every moment our overriding emotion would be one of joy. That is why saints are not usually sad.
 
Isn’t this enough to cause people to become genuinely angry, and incapable of true happiness?
Not if we are convinced of the truth of the Beatitudes and, above all, of God’s love for everyone so clearly demonstrated by Our Lord. Then we see evil in its true perspective.
 
Not if we are convinced of the truth of the Beatitudes and, above all, of God’s love for everyone so clearly demonstrated by Our Lord. Then we see evil in its true perspective.
Speaking for myself, I feel outrage! Not sure how people repress this anger, except turning a blind eye to these atrocities.
 
Speaking for myself, I feel outrage! Not sure how people repress this anger, except turning a blind eye to these atrocities.
I guess it is because we see things and respond differently.

Not everyone understands social phenomena such as poverty in the same manner. This leads to different reactions even if there is agreement that there is a problem.
One is likely to get angry if an injustice is seen as having been done purposefully or as a result of negligence. This is especially so if the victim is seen as innocent and undeserving.
A person viewing the situation as an inevitability, an existential reality of the human condition, will more likely respond with sadness.
If one takes it as a matter of a personal responsibility, then feelings of guilt are likely to ensue. If I notice and offer nothing to Lazarus, well that’s not so good, whether I care or not.

There would be no problem if anger, sadness and guilt had any nutritional value, but they don’t. They are there as a call to action, in whatever way that is in the person’s capacity. IMHO the problem of determining what one can/must do is resolved in maintaining a loving attitude, adhering to Christ’s two fundamental commandments.

However, if one continuously experiences anger, sadness and guilt, one should be also open to the possibility that one is depressed. In that state, the mind seeks out aspects of reality that conform to and justify those emotions. This is not to advocate the use of antidepressants etc as a cure for the human condition, but sometimes they help us to act.
 
Speaking for myself, I feel outrage! Not sure how people repress this anger, except turning a blind eye to these atrocities.
There is no point in losing our temper if we can do nothing to prevent atrocities. Jesus wasn’t just enraged by the exploitation of the poor He condemned the Pharisees and drove the traders out of the Temple. Yet when He was helpless on the Cross He forgave His enemies and prayed for them. We too have to act according to the circumstances instead of wasting our energy continually lamenting the horrific reality of evil. There is a time and a place for everything. We should do what we can and leave the rest to Providence.
 
There is no point in losing our temper if we can do nothing to prevent atrocities. Jesus wasn’t just enraged by the exploitation of the poor He condemned the Pharisees and drove the traders out of the Temple. Yet when He was helpless on the Cross He forgave His enemies and prayed for them. We too have to act according to the circumstances instead of wasting our energy continually lamenting the horrific reality of evil. There is a time and a place for everything. We should do what we can and leave the rest to Providence.
Perhaps if more people felt outrage something might be done to prevent this starvation. To remain calm and cool is to shrug these atrocities off and have them persist as they have been.

What would it take for you to feel outrage… how many innocent children would need to starve to death? If the Holocaust was happening today, would you feel outrage?
 
There are those who are angry with G-d for all the horrible suffering they have seen.

We cannot argue. They have a right. Perhaps G-d will listen.

-From the wisdom of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of righteous memory; words and condensation by Rabbi Tzvi Freeman.
 
There is no point in losing our temper if we can do nothing to prevent atrocities. Jesus wasn’t just enraged by the exploitation of the poor He condemned the Pharisees and drove the traders out of the Temple. Yet when He was helpless on the Cross He forgave His enemies and prayed for them. We too have to act according to the circumstances instead of wasting our energy continually lamenting the horrific reality of evil. There is a time and a place for everything. We should do what we can and leave the rest to Providence.
You have not addressed my points, Robert. We should do what we can and leave the rest to Providence. There is a limit to what we can do to help starving children but there are others we can help in less dramatic ways. We have to be realistic and do something practical instead of wondering whether it is right to be happy living in a world where is so much suffering. Actions speak louder than words.

How much good can we do if we are miserable like Puritans?
 
You have not addressed my points, Robert. We should do what we can and leave the rest to Providence. There is a limit to what we can do to help starving children but there are others we can help in less dramatic ways. We have to be realistic and do something practical instead of wondering whether it is right to be happy living in a world where is so much suffering. Actions speak louder than words.

How much good can we do if we are miserable like Puritans?
How can knowing about 9,500 children dying of starvation each day not evoke a sense of outrage!?! Are these onlookers not human!?! Is this the type of world you can feel happy in!?!
 
How can knowing about 9,500 children dying of starvation each day not evoke a sense of outrage!?! Are these onlookers not human!?! Is this the type of world you can feel happy in!?!
There is a difference between being outraged and being miserable, i.e. having a negative attitude to life. We should do what we can and leave the rest to Providence. There is a limit to what we can do to help starving children but there are others we can help in less dramatic ways. We have to be realistic and do something practical instead of wondering whether it is right to be happy living in a world where is so much suffering. Actions speak louder than words.

How much good can we do if we are like Puritans?
 
There is a difference between being outraged and being miserable, i.e. having a negative attitude to life. We should do what we can and leave the rest to Providence. There is a limit to what we can do to help starving children but there are others we can help in less dramatic ways. We have to be realistic and do something practical instead of wondering whether it is right to be happy living in a world where is so much suffering. Actions speak louder than words.

How much good can we do if we are like Puritans?
I NEVER implied that we should be miserable. Indeed, I mentioned in several posts that we should be joyful as Christians in focusing our attention on the Hereafter. It’s perfectly possible to feel great sadness towards the awful plight of others while maintaining this joy within our hearts.
 
"The death of the just: Death will reach everyone, the good and the bad; but the destiny of each one is quite different. The just man sees himself in this valley of tears as a prisoner, serving a very hard term. He considers himself a slave in this world, suffering an extremely distressing servitude. He regards himself a sailor caught in a horrible storm. And as death means an end of his confinement, an end of his slavery, and is the port of his salvation, he ceases not to cry with David, ‘Woe is me that my sojourning is prolonged!’ (Ps. 119:5)… He ceases not to ask with the Apostle’… Who shall deliver me from the body of this death? (Rom. 7:24)”
-The Golden Key to Heaven, by Saint Anthony Mary Claret

Hail Holy Queen, Mother of Mercy, our life our sweetness and our hope. To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve; To thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears. Turn then, most gracious advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us and after this our exile show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus. O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary!

How can any Catholic ignore the implications of the above? Listen again to Hail Holy Queen and tell me how we ought to order our beliefs and values?
 
I NEVER implied that we should be miserable. Indeed, I mentioned in several posts that we should be joyful as Christians in focusing our attention on the Hereafter. It’s perfectly possible to feel great sadness towards the awful plight of others while maintaining this joy within our hearts.
If we focus most of our attention on the Hereafter we neglect the plight of those in the here and now
 
If we focus most of our attention on the Hereafter we neglect the plight of those in the here and now
No. Just speaking for myself, I feel a great sadness when it comes to the starvation of innocent children, but great joy when I think about the Hereafter. It may be true that you are not able to feel sadness and joy simultaneously (something I think I can do), but there’s plenty enough time in the day to give each their fill.

(The evidence for our being able to feel mixed negative and positive emotions is mixed. Here’s one study that suggests it’s possible: ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21707144)
 
THE DISCIPLE. Whatever I can wish or imagine for my consolation, I do not expect now, but hereafter. For if I were to enjoy all the pleasures of the world, and were able to taste all its delights, they would surely pass away. Therefore my soul can never find full satisfaction or perfect refreshment save in God alone, who is the comfort of the poor and protector of the humble. Be patient, my soul; await the fulfillment of God’s promise, and you shall enjoy the abundance of His goodness in Heaven. But if you hanker inordinately after the good things of this life, you will lose those of heaven and eternity. Therefore make right use of this world’s goods, but long only for those that are eternal. This world’s good things can never satisfy you, for you are not created for the enjoyment of these alone.
-The Imitation of Christ, Book 3, Chapter 16
 
Things will be better, but for probably most people, myself included, it is good to be happy with what God has granted us in this life.
 
No. Just speaking for myself, I feel a great sadness when it comes to the starvation of innocent children, but great joy when I think about the Hereafter. It may be true that you are not able to feel sadness and joy simultaneously (something I think I can do), but there’s plenty enough time in the day to give each their fill.

(The evidence for our being able to feel mixed negative and positive emotions is mixed. Here’s one study that suggests it’s possible: ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21707144)
Our lives should consist of actions as well as emotions. Writing, signing petitions and joining pressure groups are practical ways of helping to reduce the misery in the world.
 
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