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josh987654321
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This is why I stopped posting here. I believe some people are looking for a rational way to believe in God (like the OP, and that’s why I asked him/her what he/she was looking for before I started) and others are looking for a rational way not to believe in God, when it’s the latter, I believe they look for the holes in my arguments and if they don’t find any, they leave searching for other materials in order to strengthen their original position, which I believe is understandable and why I usually try to avoid that.Honestly, I just come here because I like to argue. Every once in a while it leads to me refining my position slightly, but that’s not really my purpose in doing it. Oftentimes the only refinement is the realization that a particular rebuttal is more effective than others. For example, on the thread about free will, I learned that an argumentum ad absurdum is much more effective than arguing for determinism directly.
I agree.The deeper problem is the delivery of those sentiments. You two are doing it in a way that will turn off any would-be converts.
When you’re in a forum like this, the intention is to have people converse as equals. But the tone you guys are using suggests that you already have everything figured out, and you’re really doing those poor atheists a favor by tossing them a bone. You’ve “been there before”, as if we’re teenagers throwing tantrums and you’re giving us a lecture. Unsurprisingly, it comes across as condescending, likely as condescending as you found me addressing you as if you were students in my classroom.
Just imagine if a Christian-turned-atheist claimed to “know where you’re at” and express his desire that you will relinquish your religion someday. The implication that he is ahead of you along some imaginary linear path would be condescending, would it not?
Class dismissed.
I believe Dr Phil gave me a good little piece of advice in his book ‘Life Code’ when he said “The manner and style with which you engage other people is going to determine how they respond to you.” I believe a post on these forums can make a massive difference simply on it’s delivery.
And I think there is a reason why people usually avoid talk of religion and politics at the dinner table lol

I still think it’s good to talk about these things, but I also try to be very careful with the subject too.

I also agree with Ravi Zacharias when he said “Nothing, absolutely nothing, has a more direct bearing on the moral choices made by individuals or the purposes pursued by society than belief or disbelief in God.” Thus why such an argument I believe is usually very heated.
God Bless (If you don’t mind me saying that, it’s a good thing

Thank you for reading
Josh