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Is it true that it takes a village to raise a child?
Being that the origin of this particular saying is a mystery, and the fact that it was HRC that made it famous, I myself put absolutely zero stock in it. But that’s just me.Is it true that it takes a village to raise a child?
Even a broken clock is right twice a day.IWantGod:
Being that the origin of this particular saying is a mystery, and the fact that it was HRC that made it popular, I myself put absolutely zero stock in it. But that’s just me.Is it true that it takes a village to raise a child?
Yeah sure, Like our education system for instance. We should trust them to educate our children. You know, like how our founding fathers were all racist slave owners, and how our country, namely the U.S. Constitution is a horribly flawed document and needs to be trashed. Oh yes, and how our little 5 yr. old Johnnie or Jennie shouldn’t be afraid to experiment with their gender identity. No. in fact we must encourage them to do so. Yes indeed, it takes a village!Parents should be seeking out other adults for their children to learn from.
Were you an only child?
Thank you for nicely expressing what has always bugged me about that phrase as well. My interpretation of “it takes a village” is in the sense that the old neighborhoods, parish schools etc used to have a lot of people keeping an eye out for the kids and if they saw a kid in danger, in trouble or doing something bad, they stepped in, helped or reprimanded the kid as needed, and told the kid’s parents who generally then took further action. It did not mean a nanny state with the government sending inspectors to your home or dithering endlessly about school lunches (my elementary and junior high school didn’t even have a cafeteria).My main point is that the PARENTS should be the ones choosing and keeping a close eye on the village that helps raise their children.
HRC or any other politician I’ve ever heard use that phrase made it sound like the government should be the ones creating the village – super creepy to me (and I’m a public school teacher!).
And neither did I contend that there shouldn’t be any adult interaction. Read the last two lines of Gertabelle’s post to get to my same point.lol wut?
I didn’t say it must be a public school teacher but depriving a child of adult interaction is wrong. You pick the village but it needs to exist or a child will never meet the demands of an adult world.
Oh, come now. You knew exactly what you were doing when you responded to me the way you did. You were making a petulant response to part of my assertion and taking a quote out of context.Xanthippe_Voorhees:
And neither did I contend that there shouldn’t be any adult interaction. Read the last two lines of Gertabelle’s post to get to my same point.lol wut?
I didn’t say it must be a public school teacher but depriving a child of adult interaction is wrong. You pick the village but it needs to exist or a child will never meet the demands of an adult world.
P.S. And I stand by my statements in my follow up post about the horrible state of affairs in the public school education system.It’s no doubt you were making a mockery of the suggestion that parents need other adults to ensure a healthy development of their children. It is within their control who those people are.
Like I said, a broken clock is right twice a day.Xanthippe_Voorhees:
Ah, come on now. Anyone who is a parent sees that other adults are needed to ensure healthy development of their children. In my original post to this thread, I clearly focused on HRC. Clearly, she was the sole ire of that post. And it’s becoming increasingly clear to me, that that doesn’t sit well with you!It’s no doubt you were making a mockery of the suggestion that parents need other adults to ensure a healthy development of their children. It is within their control who those people are.
I recall you being the first to reply to my original post to this thread. And as I said, you didn’t like my attack on ole’ Hillary. BTW, you’re defense of Hillary’s quote is less than touching. Have a great day!Just because I don’t like Clinton, doesn’t mean that everything she said was wrong. Her intonation–that one must simply dump children on government workers–was incredibly wrong. But “it takes a village” is a true statement.
Your post was a complete and unnecessary mockery of what I was saying, and completely ignored what I said regarding parents choosing the “villiage” for their child.