You wrote: “People can pray to God, without having free will. They’re just getting “no” for an answer, since there is no choice.”
A. Of course, for example from habit. It has nothing to do with reception or non reception of an answer.
Your wrote: “Just because people can do one good thing, does not mean they have free will.”
A. One merits only in the state of sanctifying grace, which occurs at baptism. Those that do good, without sanctifying grace, receive no merit for it.
You wrote: “… I see people without free will as disabled, like having a broken leg. Still human, just missing something needed.” and “How does a person, whose imperfections cause them to not have free will, are in a position to reject grace?”
A. Of course, I never said people were not human if an act is without free will, as I explained, but like animals that have no culpability.
You wrote: “God doesn’t give grace to those whom he knows will reject it because they are so woefully imperfect. That is a waste of grace. That’s an imperfection and God is perfect, so this does not happen.”
A. No Catholic dogma states that without the grace of God no person can be saved, but that God always makes the first movement with actual graces, even before conversion. Sanctifying grace is received at baptism. For example an infant, or a person that is not an infant that never achieves the use of reason, that is baptized is saved, not being capable of sin. There may be many deficiencies present however.
You wrote: “First, God has to give someone the grace to overcome their imperfections, to restore free will, and proper information so they know what they’re rejecting. If either of these are missing, grace is missing.” and “Where is it in Catholic teaching (de fide, dogma, Scripture, Tradition) that God gives grace to overcome imperfections? He clearly didn’t give this grace to overcome Paul’s imperfections, he still had that thorn in the side.”
A. No, grace is given with baptism and deficiencies are not removed. So although commission of mortal sin requires the three things and will cause loss of sanctifying grace, sanctifying grace is not lost with venial sin and neither is salvation.
Additionally not all actions are sins. As stated in Catholic Encyclopedia (Sin): “When the intelligent creature, knowing God and His law, deliberately refuses to obey, moral evil results.”
Note also that (Catholic Encylopedia - Sin) "Luther and Calvin taught as their fundamental error that no free will properly so called remained in man after the fall of our first parents; "
You wrote: “Think about this. A baby is aborted and dies. Goes before the Pearly Gates. Does God say “elevator down” for the baby? Of course not. The baby will be put in a position of knowing what the choice is and fully informed. Otherwise, this eliminates God’s justice.”
A. The Church teaches that we can only hope for the salvation of unbaptized infants, it is not certainly known.
You wrote: “In God’s eyes, those have been perfected and are perfect. They have zero imperfections.”
A. Not all those categories of the Saints are listed. There are others that were very sinful but had final repentance, but die with termporal punishments remaining, yet they attain heaven. See Catechism 302
You wrote: “I state it again: Imperfect people have no choice,at the time of death : only purgatory or hell. Free will = zero for them.”
A.
Salvation results at the time of death with the presence of sanctifying grace, regardless of the amount of temporal punishments remaining. The free will choice is made before death by committing sin or repentance.
You wrote: “The smallest venial sins are known as imperfections. They’re small and venial. To gain a plenary indulgence, one cannot have one iota of attachment to the teeniest of tiniest of sins. One must be perfect.”
A. No, the Church does not teach that.
You wrote: " So not all temporal punishment appears to be obliterated by baptism" and “God clearly intended Adam and Eve’s children to live in the Garden along with them. But when they failed, the temporal punishment went to everyone, and we are in the same jail cell as they are.”
A. All temporal punishment due sin is eliminated with baptism. Catechism
1263 By Baptism all sins are forgiven, original sin and all personal sins, as well as all punishment for sin.65 In those who have been reborn nothing remains that would impede their entry into the Kingdom of God, neither Adam’s sin, nor personal sin, nor the consequences of sin, the gravest of which is separation from God.
1264 Yet certain temporal consequences of sin remain in the baptized, such as suffering, illness, death, and such frailties inherent in life as weaknesses of character, and so on, as well as an inclination to sin that Tradition calls concupiscence, or metaphorically, “the tinder for sin” (fomes peccati); since concupiscence "is left for us to wrestle with, it cannot harm those who do not consent but manfully resist it by the grace of Jesus Christ."66 Indeed, "an athlete is not crowned unless he competes according to the rules."67
You wrote “Actually, there WAS a possibility. When God commanded to Adam and Eve to “be fruitful and multiply” - he said that while in the Garden of Eden. Why would God give a command that could not be fulfilled in the Garden of Eden? Sounds like setting up someone to fail.”
A. God knew what would happen, but gave our first parents what was sufficient to not fall. The giving of free will does allow for sin, and it is the will of God, that angels and humans in general have a free will choice. Without the free will choice there is no culpability. A machine, for example, does not love or hate, although there are automatic actions.