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The treatment of this scenario is not an invention of anyone on this thread. As Bookcat has contributed many times, CAF apologists have spoken to it before…
“For two men to live in a romantic relationship with one another, whether or not they abstain from sex, violates chastity because it does not conform to the sexual integrity to which mankind is called.”
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That’s hardly a magisterial statement. Moreover, it brings up this question: surely the celibate can achieve “the sexual integrity to which mankind is called” without being in any sort of romantic relationship–so what does celibacy have in common with matrimony that a chaste same-sex relationship of beloveds
cannot possess?
That this inclination is objectively disordered is not addressing the object of that disorder as that is later addressed as intrinsically disordered… it addresses the distorted call, the miswiring, the biological misinterpretation of purpose… whatever has given rise to this misdirected attraction.
Incorrect. A disordered attraction is always to a disordered object. An attraction cannot be morally evaluated without reference to its object. I challenge you to explain to me how you can determine that an attraction or an inclination is disordered without any consideration of its object. What you are saying is that, when it comes to homosexuality, a homosexual will only ever be inclined in
an immoral way regardless of whether or not the thing to which s/he is inclined is immoral. This is contrary to catholic teaching regarding concupiscence and desire.
The ordered inclination universally gies rise to attraction to the opposite sex on which the species depends. The Church is not inventing this process, she is conforming her rules and guidelines to created nature.
Sorry, Longing, but you’re making a lot of assumptions here. It is not necessary for everyone to reproduce in order for the species to survive in a healthy way. Universal heterosexuality is hardly needful therefore; nor would it indefatigably lead to offspring for all people so inclined as, even now, not all who experience the heterosexual condition reproduce; nor, given the astounding diversity of nature, would universal heterosexuality be necessarily indicative of a completely natural state of affairs. Moreover, if the church were merely conforming herself to created nature, then certainly a return to polygamy would be more called for than an insistence on monogamy and marriage.
We don’t know what causes this disordered inclination of same sex attraction but we do know objectively that it is purposeless in natures scheme and a trial to be renounced in Gods scheme.
Again, the homosexual inclination is disordered only insofar as it is ordered to an intrinsically disordered act. That’s the catechism, Longing.
Also, we do not, in fact, know with your rather brash certainty that same-sex attraction has no purpose in nature. Some biologists have offered theories regarding the evolutionary purposes same-sex attraction may serve. But even if, one day, your certainties are proved true…so what? As our friend Oscar Wilde has said, “We can forgive a man for making a useful thing as long as he does not admire it. The only excuse for making a useless thing is that one admires it intensely.” Surely there’s room in the world for things that are exuberantly and gratuitously purposeless? To my thinking, there should be a greater appreciation for such things: the useless,the beautiful, the free.
You’re getting quite colorful in your description of same-sex attraction as “a trial to be renounced in God’s scheme.” I don’t know exactly what that means–I suspect you chose those words for effect rather than sense. I didn’t know that we were called to renounce our trials, nor am I convinced that same-sex attraction represents, in itself, a
de facto trial. Certainly some, as the catechism affirms, will see it that way. But I’m not sure it’s necessary that they do so in order to live a moral life. I suspect, however, that the insistence that it
is a trial from many otherwise well-meaning folks is itself constitutive of a burden for same-sex attracted people. I would even go so far as to say that it is precisely this insistence which characterizes the chief “trial” of same-sex attraction.
Under the Mercy,
Mark
All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!