I am not there so I do not know the situation that you have. From your tone, you seem to be an angry person.
For your information but I am aure you already known, mass does not change and a valid mass confers grace.
Is the mass valid or not? That would be a bottom line. If not, and if you cannot do anything about it, then look for another parish, or just do not go there. But please do not blame the mass or the Cstholic Church, which you seem to be doing.
If you truly believe and love the mass, you would be going there for wosrhip, not hating any females with any particular dresses or who were seated next to the priest. Sure, it is not the most ideal situation, but you still got to participate in a mass and maybe receive Communion, if you are so disposed, until the next Sunday, where you can choose to go to another parish.
Blaming other people for your own shortcoming is not valid. The Lord will not say, “I understand that you did not like the priest and the choir, so I would not put it on you that you left the Church.”
No, blaming others will not justify you.