When modern Catholics reject the āordination of womenā, theyāre referring to the modern sense of the term, not the older sense that includes Eastern deaconesses (though many think that deaconesses are āordainedā in the modern sense, which is incorrect; deaconesses are NOT female Deacons).
**Ghosty, the word CHEIROTONIA is used for the major orders, including Deaconess.
CHEIROTHESIA is used for minor orders of Reader and Subdeacon.
I have already given the link to the service, but I will point out that the order for ordaining both a Male and Female Deacon takes places in the same point of the Liturgy, has many of the same prayers, inculding the initial one read only during major orders āThe Divine Graceā¦ā and the Deaconess is given the stole.**