Huh?
Ouch, your bold is hurting my eyes!
I’m not saying I think for sure that people assumed at the time that Mary would have had other children.
I’m saying that if they didn’t know about the whole angel-visit-son-of-God-child thing, there’d be no reason for people she met to automatically think otherwise…or if they did know she only had one child, they might just think she wasn’t very fertile and couldn’t get pregnant again.
I assume Mary and Joseph didn’t go around telling their neighbors that their baby was the son of God and that they didn’t have sex and that she intended to remain a virgin for the rest of her life? Seems way to personal.
You point out the key words “you think”…but they do apply to you, too. You are thinking how you think, too.
As for the other part of your post…I think I need a good night’s sleep before untangling it and explaining.
I’ll try to write down info for you tomorrow!
Sorry if the bold was too bold. . .
But honestly, you’re getting more and more tangled in speculation and assumption. . .while at the same time you’re ignoring facts.
Now it seems that instead of speaking about early Christians, you are talking about friends and neighbors of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. And what they may have discussed --or not–during the lifetime of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph has no real bearing on the truth of the gospel, does it?
We are not talking about whether Baruch the next door neighbor knew about the ‘son of God’ Jesus when Jesus was a teenager, or how much Mary and Joseph ‘shared’ about the state of their marriage – that has nothing to do with the teachings of Christianity.
We are talking about the FOLLOWERS of Jesus. . .what they believed.
And while we don’t have the Bible canon, we do have the disciples teaching. . .orally. . the gospels. Those gospels were written only after they had been spread orally, and they were written before the last apostle died. . .so there were bound to be people living who KNEW Mary, Jesus, and Joseph.
These people would have KNOWN if there were more children of Mary and Joseph. And they would have passed that knowledge down. But. . .they didn’t. . .because you can’t prove a negative, and the fact is, there ARE no ‘children of Mary and Joseph’ other than Jesus. If there had been, the fact would have been known. There is simply no way that an entire body of teaching could have grown up with Jesus being portrayed as being born of a Virgin who remained a virgin IF she had been known by hundreds and even thousands of people to have gone on to have other children, who , those brothers and sisters being ALIVE and presumably involved either in carrying on their brother’s ministry or in opposing it.
And yet although the gospels were amassed over a period of probably 50-60 years after Jesus’ death and resurrection, there was NO MENTION of those brothers and sisters? You’ll say that Mary wasn’t mentioned either (though one could make a case that St John refers to her in Revelation) but if Mary was the ONLY KIN of Jesus, then not mentioning her would be a way to ensure her SAFETY, because certainly the Jews and Romans would have loved to have her to torture and try to make her ‘recant’.
But if there were PLENTY of “Jesus’ kin”, then the sudden failure to mention ANY of them is puzzling. If they were all ‘against Jesus’, that would be a reason not to mention Mary (who was ‘for’ Jesus), as they would probably hand her over. . .but if they were all against Jesus, there are plenty of Biblical verses from the OT that could have been shown to be a ‘fulfilled prophecy’.
If they were all ‘for’ Jesus, then they should indeed have been mentioned as they would have been ‘jewels in the crown’ --not just among the first early Christians, but ‘blood relations’ to the Lord. Even if they were being ‘protected’, the stories should have come down (as the stories about Mary came down in Sacred Tradition).
But they didn’t. Because there were no stories. There were no other children. The Christian teachings from the get go (remember, things were written down after they had already been taught ‘by mouth’, often for decades or even centuries) spoke of the perpetual Virginity.
Even the EARLIEST PROTESTANTS, reading the whole, “brothers and sisters” and ‘knew her not until’, believed in her perpetual virginity.
So what proof can you offer when all Christendom heard and taught this teaching about Mary? Assumptions? Speculation? It just doesn’t add up.
I just can’t understand how any Christian could try to interpret the words of the Bible outside of the Holy Spirit. . . and that is exactly what this ‘teaching of men’ is doing.
It’s all about ‘Mary and Joseph HAVE to be ‘normal’ and any other interpretation is just STUPID’. . .
and NOTHING about the words of the Angel, or God’s role, or what the whole idea of “God made man” entailed in the context of God’s revealed truth to men.
That’s how we know it is a ‘different’ gospel’. It’s a gospel made in the image of ‘man’, meant to glorify man and put God in his proper ‘place’.
As for the whole ‘you think too’. . .sure I think. . .but I reason as well.
If you and I are debating about the law of gravity, and YOU think it doesn’t apply, and I DO think so, you might taunt me as you walk off the side of the Grand Canyon with “And what you say is ONLY WHAT YOU THINK, SAME AS ME”. . .but you would be the one falling down several thousand feet, while I remained safe above.
If something is true, it’s true.
Either it is true that Mary had other children, or it is true that she had NO other children.
ONE of those is true, the other false.
So what I SAY (not just think) is much more than just one of many ‘relative’ thoughts.
You must think your concept is true or you wouldn’t try so hard to defend it, but where are your proofs? I can bring in the whole Catholic Church (and you know what Scripture says about the idea of witnesses). Where is the consistent teaching from the earliest time that backs you up? You don’t have it. I do.