Judgemental Protestants

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Have been there numerous times. Great people and even a very lively atmosphere that evangelicals will find acceptable. **Actually the priest has homolies that can last an hour. **
Wait, I thought you said this was a Catholic parish? 🤷

šŸ˜‰ No, but seriously I appreciate what you say there. And, if I may, I believe that the Protestant churches near me are just that fair and kind to Nonprotestants, despite what may be posted on this or that Protestant blog or forum.
 
Have been there numerous times. Great people and even a very lively atmosphere that evangelicals will find acceptable. Actually the priest has homolies that can last an hour. No joking .

I have stated many times I have no problem with Catholics. It’s rather a problem that they have a problem with me and all the interesting linguistics associated with it. I am not here to convert anyone, rather to understand why any Catholic feels the need to convert me.
That was/is my thing too. I never understood it.

My wife and I need to meet with another couple in the Parish to discuss baptism for our newest addition (he will be the only of our 3 to be baptized there). Not really looking forward to it, should be interesting.
 
That was/is my thing too. I never understood it.

My wife and I need to meet with another couple in the Parish to discuss baptism for our newest addition (he will be the only of our 3 to be baptized there). Not really looking forward to it, should be interesting.
All the best with that! šŸ™‚ And also congratulations!
 
I know I’m a bit late to the thread šŸ™‚ but I just wanted to say that, here in England, I’ve never really experienced too much judgementalism from either side (although I might just have been lucky). As a Catholic-leaning Anglican, I knew some people from the more conservative evangelical parts of the church who found some of the things I believed in a bit odd, but I wouldn’t say they were ever unfriendly or judgemental. The people who would steer clear of anything remotely Catholic-y at ecumenical events were very few. Similarly, since becoming a Catholic I’ve met people who don’t like Protestants or think I’m a second class Catholic as a convert, but they’re also few and far between.

Interestingly, the most judgemental people seem to be those who aren’t involved in a church at all. I’ve heard the most vehement anti-Catholic rhetoric from people who’ve never set foot in a church in their lives. I think there is still a lingering anti-Catholic vibe in parts of England for historical reasons (CofE is patriotic and good, RC is Foreign and Bad) but generally I’ve found that practicing Christians here are quite accepting of one another.
 
That’s kind of the deal. I was met with a large amount of distain at the church IRL. I tripped on this place when trying to learn more about it.
Try a different parish. There are lots of very human reasons for a parish to be in turmoil. More than likely, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with some type of issue in that particular parish.

The one parish that I went to that didn’t give a friendly feel was in a tourist town and it seemed as though there was a low level of disdain for visitors because many were rude about talking and taking pictures while people from the parish were there to pray. I think sometimes new faces are ignored, or even slightly resented, in parishes located in big cities, especially parishes that are old and make for nice tourist attractions.
 
Try a different parish.
I don’t agree with this. I don’t believe St Paul would suggest going somewhere different. Rather, suffer injustice, and try to better the community. Anyway, we do have canonical parishes, where we are suppose to attend/participate.
 
I know I’m a bit late to the thread šŸ™‚ but I just wanted to say that, here in England, I’ve never really experienced too much judgementalism from either side (although I might just have been lucky). As a Catholic-leaning Anglican, I knew some people from the more conservative evangelical parts of the church who found some of the things I believed in a bit odd, but I wouldn’t say they were ever unfriendly or judgemental. The people who would steer clear of anything remotely Catholic-y at ecumenical events were very few. Similarly, since becoming a Catholic I’ve met people who don’t like Protestants or think I’m a second class Catholic as a convert, but they’re also few and far between.

Interestingly, the most judgemental people seem to be those who aren’t involved in a church at all. I’ve heard the most vehement anti-Catholic rhetoric from people who’ve never set foot in a church in their lives. I think there is still a lingering anti-Catholic vibe in parts of England for historical reasons (CofE is patriotic and good, RC is Foreign and Bad) but generally I’ve found that practicing Christians here are quite accepting of one another.
What does it mean to be a Catholic-leaning Anglican?
 
This person is curious about the Catholic faith. They should go where they feel like people are kind and supportive. They shouldn’t be expected to fix a parish.

However, I do agree with you that seasoned Catholics should try to help their local parish.
 
I know I’m a bit late to the thread šŸ™‚ but I just wanted to say that, here in England, I’ve never really experienced too much judgementalism from either side (although I might just have been lucky). As a Catholic-leaning Anglican, I knew some people from the more conservative evangelical parts of the church who found some of the things I believed in a bit odd, but I wouldn’t say they were ever unfriendly or judgemental. The people who would steer clear of anything remotely Catholic-y at ecumenical events were very few. Similarly, since becoming a Catholic I’ve met people who don’t like Protestants or think I’m a second class Catholic as a convert, but they’re also few and far between.

Interestingly, the most judgemental people seem to be those who aren’t involved in a church at all. I’ve heard the most vehement anti-Catholic rhetoric from people who’ve never set foot in a church in their lives. I think there is still a lingering anti-Catholic vibe in parts of England for historical reasons (CofE is patriotic and good, RC is Foreign and Bad) but generally I’ve found that practicing Christians here are quite accepting of one another.
Interesting perspective from England.

I can completely understand your thoughts in the second paragraph. We have the same type of extreme prejudice here, some of which can be called residue from the English settlers, who brought their prejudices with them. Of course, they gave the American Episcopal church a hard time after the Revolution, but since so many founding fathers were Episcopalian, that faded away quickly.

In addition, we have anti-Catholics from the 60s and 70s who were very poorly catechized or just rejected all that they learned. The most bitter, nasty, people I have ever met in regards to religious bias, were people that attended Catholic school or were somewhat raised Catholic during those eras. I can’t help but suspect their bitterness is as a result of personal family issues. It seems the Church is being blamed for their bad childhood or poor personal choices.
 
I don’t agree with this. I don’t believe St Paul would suggest going somewhere different. Rather, suffer injustice, and try to better the community. Anyway, we do have canonical parishes, where we are suppose to attend/participate.
i disagree. he didn’t address this at all since parishes were not so numerous and close together in his time. he would have agreed with you if the decision was stay or leave the church all together. There is nothing wrong with changing parishes especially if the current parish is not acting like a christian community.
 
Interesting perspective from England.

I can completely understand your thoughts in the second paragraph. The most bitter, nasty people I have ever met in regards to religious bias, were people that attended Catholic school or were somewhat raised Catholic. I can’t help but suspect their bitterness is as a result of personal family issues. It seems the Church is being blamed for their bad childhood.
i don’t understand it at all. In all my time as a catholic, i have seen some rudeness from catholics, but i have never once met a catholic who has been as nasty and disgusting as the huge number of protestants i’ve come across, both as a kid and as an adult.

As a kid people told me i wasn’t catholic and that my religion was a bunch of satan worshipping demons. I was told that routinely throughout my time attending a youth christian group hosted by baptists. Thankfully it didn’t affect me like they had hoped.
 
I edited before I saw your post. I hope I explained it a little better. Where I grew up, there were many fallen away Catholics and few Baptists. Perhaps it’s where you were raised?
 
This person is curious about the Catholic faith. They should go where they feel like people are kind and supportive. They shouldn’t be expected to fix a parish.

However, I do agree with you that seasoned Catholics should try to help their local parish.
i disagree. he didn’t address this at all since parishes were not so numerous and close together in his time. he would have agreed with you if the decision was stay or leave the church all together. There is nothing wrong with changing parishes especially if the current parish is not acting like a christian community.
Ok. I can see some reasoning behind a certain situation. I did not say I think TC should ā€œfixā€ a Parish. But my sentiment is more in line with seeking Jesus and not man’s opinions. Devote to Him. In a case where there is poor behavior and attitudes, and a newcomer is able to attend another close Parish that strengthens him/her, I am not strictly against. But it should be raised to the attention of the better Parish, so that something is done on their part. To just go to another Parish, when things get challenging only hurts the body. Others may attend and decide that it’s all hypocrisy and never continue believing!

So my position is probably more for the Christian who is a little more established in the faith, than a ā€œbaby Christianā€ needing milk.

I think there are many who are more mature than they want to be, and avoid challenges at a Parish. This becomes a large problem when certain Parishes grow strong, while others are left to weak faith people.

I think to remain in a weak Parish has greater potential to see God doing amazing things!
 
What does it mean to be a Catholic-leaning Anglican?
Good question, I’ll try to keep the answer short šŸ™‚

When the Church of England split from Rome, Henry VIII kept most of the Catholic liturgy and practice (i.e. The Mass). Later rulers wanted to bring the CofE more in line with the other reformed European churches. The 1662 Book of Common Prayer, still the CofE’s foundation document, is very anti-Catholic, denying the real presence, the intercession of saints, banning tabernacles and the mixing of water and wine and the elevation of the host in the Eucharist etc.

In the 19th century, a movement called the Oxford Movement or Tractarian movement under John Henry Newman (now bl. John Henry Newman) started to reassert the Catholic heritage of the CofE, which included a return to Catholic practices, vestments etc which had been previously banned.

So the CofE now has two wings, broadly speaking - the reformed who are much more in line with other Protestant churches and Anglo-Catholics, who follow Catholic practice, often use the Roman Missal, venerate the saints and Our Lady at places such as Walsingham but, for whatever reason, can’t bring themselves to cross the Tiber. It’s a cause of a lot of internal tension. One parish might believe in the real presence, the priesthood - the next door one believes in memorial meals and elected leaders.

Hope that helps šŸ™‚
 
Interesting perspective from England.

I can completely understand your thoughts in the second paragraph. We have the same type of extreme prejudice here, some of which can be called residue from the English settlers, who brought their prejudices with them. Of course, they gave the American Episcopal church a hard time after the Revolution, but since so many founding fathers were Episcopalian, that faded away quickly.

In addition, we have anti-Catholics from the 60s and 70s who were very poorly catechized or just rejected all that they learned. The most bitter, nasty, people I have ever met in regards to religious bias, were people that attended Catholic school or were somewhat raised Catholic during those eras. I can’t help but suspect their bitterness is as a result of personal family issues. It seems the Church is being blamed for their bad childhood or poor personal choices.
That’s interesting. I’d heard bits and pieces about how Catholicism is viewed in America during the election coverage, but that’s far from an unbiased picture! The CC is a relative newcomer here, as the hierarchy was only re-established in 1850 (the monarch still isn’t allowed to be a Catholic, and it’s frowned on in public office - look at Tony Blair waiting to step down as PM before he converted). Is there a sense of the CC being an outsider where you are, or is there a particular denomination that it’s ā€˜patriotic’ to belong to, as with the Church of England?

I completely get what you’re saying about the ex-Catholics who are now anti. Some of the most nasty atheists I know are the ones who used to have a deep fundamentalist faith and then lost or rejected it. It feels like they’re lashing out and turning their pain back on the Church.
 
There is nothing wrong with changing parishes especially if the current parish is not acting like a christian community.
I think the ā€œifā€ part of your statement hits the nail right on the head.

There various articles out there describing ā€œreligious abuseā€, for example www1.cbn.com/warning-signs-of-spiritual-abuse-part-one . Which, in a way, is what the topic of Judgmental Protestants is ultimately about.
 
That’s interesting. I’d heard bits and pieces about how Catholicism is viewed in America during the election coverage, but that’s far from an unbiased picture! The CC is a relative newcomer here, as the hierarchy was only re-established in 1850 (the monarch still isn’t allowed to be a Catholic, and it’s frowned on in public office - look at Tony Blair waiting to step down as PM before he converted). Is there a sense of the CC being an outsider where you are, or is there a particular denomination that it’s ā€˜patriotic’ to belong to, as with the Church of England?

I completely get what you’re saying about the ex-Catholics who are now anti. Some of the most nasty atheists I know are the ones who used to have a deep fundamentalist faith and then lost or rejected it. It feels like they’re lashing out and turning their pain back on the Church.
We have a history in the US of anti-Catholicism. Things like requiring candidates for political office to take a vow that they did not believe in transubstantiation existed up through the 1920s. We have only had one Catholic president (and he downplayed it) out of 45. It was the religion of immigrants and resulted in the rise of the Nativist party. The statistics really show how much the US changed in a very short time. In 1840, Catholics made up 2% of Americans. By the 1920s, it was 22% (think Irish, German, and Italian immigrants). This caused a huge uproar and groups like the KKK, who were already going after black people, added people with so called ā€˜immigrant religions’, such as Catholics and Jews, to their target list.

Mild mainstream Protestants do best. Our elite are WASPs. Presbyterians, Methodists and Episcopalians have done very well in politic, historically. Baptists do well in local politics in the South.
 
Try a different parish. There are lots of very human reasons for a parish to be in turmoil. More than likely, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with some type of issue in that particular parish.

The one parish that I went to that didn’t give a friendly feel was in a tourist town and it seemed as though there was a low level of disdain for visitors because many were rude about talking and taking pictures while people from the parish were there to pray. I think sometimes new faces are ignored, or even slightly resented, in parishes located in big cities, especially parishes that are old and make for nice tourist attractions.
Not really an option for me. This is the only Parish in our town, so I’m kind of stuck. It all kind of comes from the top down. The father that used to be there really…really didn’t like non-Catholic Christians and loved to make that known. Seems like the new father isn’t a big fan either.
 
All the best with that! šŸ™‚ And also congratulations!
Thanks…greatly appreciated.

Both the mother and father teach or taught catechism classes in the Church. I asked my wife, ā€œyou’ve told them I’m not Catholic…right?ā€

She said "No,…I haven’t brought that up yet…Monday’s gonna be interesting…isn’t it?
 
Good question, I’ll try to keep the answer short šŸ™‚

When the Church of England split from Rome, Henry VIII kept most of the Catholic liturgy and practice (i.e. The Mass). Later rulers wanted to bring the CofE more in line with the other reformed European churches. The 1662 Book of Common Prayer, still the CofE’s foundation document, is very anti-Catholic, denying the real presence, the intercession of saints, banning tabernacles and the mixing of water and wine and the elevation of the host in the Eucharist etc.

In the 19th century, a movement called the Oxford Movement or Tractarian movement under John Henry Newman (now bl. John Henry Newman) started to reassert the Catholic heritage of the CofE, which included a return to Catholic practices, vestments etc which had been previously banned.

So the CofE now has two wings, broadly speaking - the reformed who are much more in line with other Protestant churches and Anglo-Catholics, who follow Catholic practice, often use the Roman Missal, venerate the saints and Our Lady at places such as Walsingham but, for whatever reason, can’t bring themselves to cross the Tiber. It’s a cause of a lot of internal tension. One parish might believe in the real presence, the priesthood - the next door one believes in memorial meals and elected leaders.

Hope that helps šŸ™‚
great explanation! thanks!
 
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