You may be correct - because they generally do not want to accept it although scripture makes election/predestination very clear.
What is your understanding of this particular passage?
Ro 9:11 (For the children being not yet born, neither having done any good or evil, that the **purpose of God **according to election might stand, not of works, but of him that calleth

12 It was said unto her, The elder shall serve the younger.
13 As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.
14 What shall we say then?
Is there unrighteousness with God? God forbid.
BY THE WAY, THIS IS WHAT I WOULD SAY IN RESPONSE TO YOUR ISSUES WITH GOD’S CHOOSING OF SOME TO SALVATION WHILE PASSING OVER OTHERS (ALTHOUGH NONE OF US DESERVE SALVATION)
15 For he saith to Moses,
I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion. 16
So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy.
17 For the scripture saith unto Pharaoh, Even for this same purpose have I raised thee up, that I might shew my power in thee, and that my name might be declared throughout all the earth.
18 Therefore hath he mercy on whom he will have mercy, and whom he will he hardeneth.
19 Thou wilt say then unto me,
Why doth he yet find fault? For who hath resisted his will?
20 Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus?
21 Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour?
THIS IS ANOTHER PASSAGE DESIGNED TO ANSWER PEOPLE THAT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH GOD CHOOSING SOME TO SALVATION WHILE PASSING OVER OTHERS…
22 What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction:
23 And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory,
24 Even us, whom he hath called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles?
God chooses us according to His plan and purpose - and not by anything that we do…
Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are
the called according to his purpose.
Was Judas chosen??? Certainly not…
John 13:18 I speak not of you all: I know whom I have chosen: but that the scripture may be fulfilled, He that eateth bread with me hath lifted up his heel against me.
That is why Judas was allowed to go wayward while Jesus still prayed for Peter’s return…
Luke 22:31 And the Lord said, Simon, Simon, behold, Satan hath desired to have you, that he may sift you as wheat:
32 But I have prayed for thee, that thy faith fail not: and when thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren.
Other passages…
John 15:16 Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you.
1Pe 1:2 Elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through sanctification of the Spirit, unto obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace unto you, and peace, be multiplied.
Eph 1:4 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love:
Act 16:14 And a certain woman named Lydia, a seller of purple, of the city of Thyatira, which worshipped God, heard us: whose heart the Lord opened, that she attended unto the things which were spoken of Paul.
Acts 13:48 When the Gentiles heard this, they began rejoicing and glorifying the word of the Lord; and as many as had been appointed to eternal life believed.
Our faith comes through grace…
Acts 18:27 And when he wanted to go across to Achaia, the brethren encouraged him and wrote to the disciples to welcome him; and when he had arrived, he greatly helped those who had believed through grace,
And God’s choosing is by grace…
Romans 11:5 Even so then at this present time also there is a remnant according to the election of grace.
Nobody can come to Christ unless they are drawn to Him…
John 6:44 No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him: and I will raise him up at the last day.
DRAW - or helko hel’-ko; probably akin to 138; **to drag **(literally or figuratively):–draw. Compare 1667.
It is effectual grace of election - God’s gracious choice.