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HarryStotle
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Perhaps, but having your own stories to tell might function to lead you into the trap of being all too ready to believe someone who falsely claims to have suffered from the same experience as you did.If you want to know why it angers so many women that she is disbelieved, it is because we have our own stories to tell, stories about guys everyone admires who we know very well did something totally out of bounds. If we spent any time at all blaming ourselves and then realize, “hey, I didn’t do anything wrong,” then the next emotion is usually anger. If you put yourself in her shoes and hear people calling her names and shaming her, you feel angry.
That does not provide evidence that Ford is telling the truth, but it does point to a motivation many women might have for believing Ford even in the absence of proper evidence.
As a psychologist, Ford would likely have some insights into the pre-cognitive biases which move individuals and women specifically. So she would know very well what words to use, what emotional triggers to pull and how to construct a narrative so as to get the most mileage from those most prone to believe her.
This sword cuts both ways, which ought to bring us back to actual evidence and not a reliance on emotional empathy and its triggers.
Given that Ford floated Kavanaugh’s name as her assaulter back in 2012 when his name was high on the list of Romney’s potential nominees and then we heard nothing from her until 2018 when Kavanaugh’s name came up again, that coincidence is telling.
There is a connection between Kavanaugh and Ford through their mutual friend ‘Squi’ who Ford dated for several months in 1981, apparently. My suspicion is that Ford hoped to exploit this past connection between them by fabricating a story with just the right mix of plausibility and deniability that it would come down to a he said, she said accusation that would be entirely impossible to prove either way. She had four years to perfect the telling and hoped for at least a little corroboration from her named witnesses.