I’m glad the article has been removed, I was disappointed by it. I love having advent and lent as seasons where I can really concentrate on my spiritual life and see where I’m lacking. For instance this lent I’m working on my prayer life. My husband and I have family prayers in the evening and we pray together on our way into work every morning but my personal prayer life is very lacking. So I’m giving up something (time) and I’m giving it to God. I’m getting up a half hour early every morning so I can pray the rosary by myself and read some scripture or a spiritual book.
But that doesn’t mean I don’t examine my conscience at any other time of the year! I usually attend confession at least twice a month and for me I actually find I examine myself more now that I’m a Catholic than when I was a Mormon.
As a Mormon I thought that since I was doing all the things I was supposed to do, going to church, taking the sacrament, reading my scriptures, praying, avoiding sexual sin, keeping the word of wisdom, holding a calling, all that stuff, that I was doing pretty good and I never really took a hard look at myself and saw how much I had to work on. I knew that I still had “minor” imperfections but I was never really going to be perfect was I? And so I never felt the need to look deeper into my soul.
As a Catholic, whenever I do an examination of conscience I realize how I fall short on a regular basis. SoI go to confession and repent and keep trying. The difference for me now is that I’m aware of these sins and I repent of them and try to not commit them again. And some things (gossip, uncharitable thoughts, little white lies, gluttony) were never even on my radar as sins that I needed to repent of and avoid when I was Mormon.