SteveVH,
Christ came to free people through the truth, not to enslave them, as you know. There is such a huge difference!
When John saw in vision that power was given “unto the beast” (Revelation 13:4) to “make war with the saints, and to overcome them (v. 7)”, “and power was given him over all kindreds, and tongues, and nations”, then what was John to do–complain to God and “destroy the Kingdom”? Of course not–he understood that he was to do the best he could to warn the saints (which he did as we read in his epistles and in Revelation 1-4), to encourage them and strengthen them, but to also see a bigger picture about what was going to happen, an eventuality that he was allowed to see.
Always, when God allows bad things to happen, even to good people, it is for their good–that is how God works, being infinitely wise and infinitely loving. There is never a question about that–He will always do the very best thing that can be done for the ultimate triumph of (1) free will choice, (2) freely chosen love, and (3) the triumph of grace for the benefit and blessing of humankind, through His Beloved Only Begotten Son, our Redeemer.
I do indeed believe that people “create their own truth”, if by that you mean they choose deep within their soul what they want to live by, and then they do live by that, ultimately. They live by what they decide is true for themselves personally.
For example, this thread has talked about living apostles. When my children sit and watch and listen or read the teachings and encouragement of living apostles, then that is a reality that sows deep within their heart the testimony of faith in the Lord, Jesus Christ, in their own ability to repent and come unto Christ, and instills a desire to be an example among their peers of being a follower of Christ and also to be of service to others. That is the reality I live with every day–it is not fake, it is not a front–it is genuine root choices being made by young adults, and they are choosing truths they desire to live by, witnessed to them by the Holy Ghost through having heard, read, seen, and understood.