It’s still a medical term. The word isn’t the problem, it’s how we describe it. Do we say it’s the removal of tissue from a pregnancy or do we say it’s the ending the life of the fetus. The term is the least of our problems
How do we let a woman facing a crisis situation in her life know that she has alternatives?
Prior to 1870, in the United States there were no laws against abortions. Contrary to modern perceptions, it was actually the feminists of the era who fought for the laws that protected women against a slick industry with glitzy advertising.
No woman is empowered by the loss of her child.
Feminists for Life states the number one reason given by women seeking abortions is a lack of resources. The most common approach in recent years by pro-life groups is to lead women to those resources. It is to lead them to places like Birthright, and Room at the Inn. It is campus programs that provide diapers and clothing for the newborn, so the mother doesn’t feel she has to make a choice that cannot be changed.
For a time when my brother was still alive, he lived across the street from an abortion clinic. What these women did not need is what he heard on a daily basis. They didn’t need the name calling, etc. One day a woman brought her daughter to his apartment and asked if he and his wife would babysit while she took her for an abortion. My sister-in-law knew it was not what the daughter wanted. With authority, she simply said, “I wish you wouldn’t.” That’s all it took to save a life.
Often what these women need is compassion. They need to know that somebody actually cares about them, doesn’t see them as “baby-killers” but as scared individuals who need to know there are other better life affirming choices.
Our job is to loving point them toward those other alternatives.