I understand, but I think it is really awesome to try to let go of our past wrong ideas and try to embrace the ancient faith. I was raised as a Jehovah Witness from the ages of 5 to 28, so I know about fearing anything close to even as asking for prayers from “dead” people.
A few lines that touch on the topic of this discussion from The Service of the Salutations to the Most Holy Theotokos that we do during lent:
All-lauded one, rejoice, divine * entrance of those who are being saved.
O rejoice, untainted Lady. * Mercy seat for the world, rejoice, * ladder elevating * everyone from earth by an act of grace.
O Lady, rejoice, * through whom we are fulfilled with joy * and inherit life eternal.
Deceased have been quickened through your power, * for pregnant were you with life hypostasized. * They who once were speechless now * speak with newfound eloquence. * Diseases are exterminated, lepers purified. * The legions of * the aerial spirits, * O Virgin, are defeated, for you are man’s salvation.
O Birthgiver of the world’s salvation, * through you we are raised from earth unto the heights. * Ever-blessed Maid, rejoice, * fortress and protective veil, * O pure one, the defense and the fortification of all * who sing the hymn: * O praise and supremely * exalt the Lord, O all you His works unto the ages.
So that we may cry, * rejoice, unto you through whom we faithful have become * sharers of eternal joy, * O Maiden, rescue us from temptations all, * barbarian invasions and from every other scourge, * which are bound to * follow on the multitude * of transgressions committed by sinful man.
Since you have appeared, * our light and our surety, we therefore shout to you: * O unsetting star, rejoice, * from which the great Sun emerged unto the world. * Rejoice, O pure one, for you opened Eden closed of old. * O rejoice, the * fiery pillar ushering * humankind out of bondage to life on high
Pure and guileless dove * who brought forth the Lord of mercy as an olive branch, * Ever-virgin, O rejoice. * The boast of every devout monastic Saint, * rejoice, the crown of laurel of the martyr athletes. Rejoice, * the divine adornment of the righteous all, * and for us the believers deliverance.
Rejoice, who open the portals of Paradise.