I guess no man can answer my question. The people in the Bible are not cardboard cutouts…they were PEOPLE. My question was a logical one. It was stated that Mary could not have denied Joseph if he DEMANDED sex after Jesus was born. I merely wonder what a wholely human man would do in this situation. I am a woman so could not answer.
However, I would assume that the answer would be what Antoine, the young man so taken with Bernadette, said of her…“One ought not even touch such a creature!” And she only SAW the Mother of Jesus. Surely Joseph, as a man, thought similiarly about the precious Mother of God’s ownly begotten Son.
We can also see that Mary was actually the spouse of the Holy Spirit who impregnated her. In ancient Jewish times, a man could choose to have a woman found pregnant with another man’s child prior to their marriage stoned to death or he could choose to take her as his legal wife, but would never be with her sexually as long as that man that fathered her child was alive since the father was her de facto husband.