TheRealJuliane;9119699**:
No, it’s not impossible to tell depression and anxiety from laziness and cowardice. Not if you’ve ever been depressed and/or anxious.
And not if you’ve ever been around someone who is depressed and/or anxious. Panic attacks do not resemble cowardice. The fear/anxiety makes no sense in the context of what is objectively happening.
People who want to be lazy do not cry all the time, sleep a lot, not sleep at all, want to hurt themselves, isolate, want to commit suicide, feel hopeless, feel despair, have no energy, lose interest in normal activities. Lazy people don’t lose their sense of humor, feel empty, have no affect or expression, and lose their appetite or eat way more than usual. All of those describe what depression does to a person.
From inside depression, I would say that the condition makes it harder to actually commit serious sin. Sins of commission, that is. It takes a tremendous amount of energy just to minimally function, let alone go out and do something objectively wrong and mortally sinful.
And I would think that the sins of omission would be mitigated because the person is incapable of doing their normal duties, say, to be a wife and mother. Anyway, that would be a venial sin, I think.
ADHD is not a mental illness by the way. It’s called a “disorder” but many experts in the field believe it is merely a normal variation in the way human minds work.
Please…this may be your experience, but it is not mine. In my experience…yes sometimes it was obviously unreasonable. But for me, many of the manifestations came about as exaggerations of what would be ordinary. The spectrum ran seamlessly between being overtired and not wanting to get out of bed, and being unable to summon the energy to move in the mornings. The ends are distinct, but most days don’t seem to be on either end. Same with anxiety - the reaction to events that would normally produce fear and stress was greater. How much greater is not obvious. Panic attacks might be obvious, but the time you are stuck in the women’s room trying and failing to nerve yourself for a difficult meeting? Not so obvious.