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Steph700
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Guys, I am glad I found this thread. To say that I am mildly annoyed with my RCIA program is an understatement.
I was a born and raised evangelical- so Bible was a huge emphasis in my spiritual formation. While my class does have organization to it, including a syllabus that covers all the important topics, the participants fall into several less than ideal categories. The first category has little to no knowledge of the Bible or Church teachings. They express their views (many I must say are blasphemy!) and our RCIA leaders often do not correct them or tell them what the church actually teaches! I feel like I’m at a Unitarian Church gathering, not Catholic.
The other category includes people who are way too overly-intellectual about theology. They are theology students at local universities and they want to debate the deep meanings of the Old Testament text and languages. Way over the heads of many of our class (some members of our class don’t even speak English as their first language), and while I don’t like jumping to conclusions, sometimes I doubt their sincerity in wanting to become Catholic. It’s more like they want to show off how much they know, it’s not about their heart or the salvation of their soul.
Others are there to join the Church b/c their partner is Catholic and they want to get married in the church. I think this is just a lousy reason to become Catholic and if you haven’t decided on that faith before your spouse (or his mom) “talked you into it” then you should think long and hard about your motivation for joining. (I’m also strongly against missionary dating, as you can probably tell!)
At the end of the night I leave frazzled and upset, too many talkers in my group and I never really get a chance to voice the fact that I disagree with probably 90% of what is said. The priest leading our group is cool and I’m assuming orthodox but he isn’t always there. The other leaders have about 5 years between the 3 of them of being Catholic, and they seem to only want to emphasize how radically Vatican II impacted the Church. They rarely confront the views presented by class members which are contrary to the Bible and Church teaching.
I’m sorry, but I don’t want to join a church that “radically” changes its views every couple centuries or so. My understanding is that Vatican II developed theology and practices that were already in place, but I didn’t think it changed “everything” (as my leaders seem to imply). Are they right? Have I been greatly deceived that the Church is the same church it has been all through the ages, blossoming its theology like a flower? Or is it something totally different than I thought?
I am pulling my hair out! I’m not learning a thing! And for the first time since I started exploring Catholicism over 2.5 years ago, I’m starting to have doubts about joining the church. I mean my gosh, why can’t they pull it together?
This is a rant, I hope no one out there takes offense, but I am just so frustrated. I joined RCIA to learn about the church, all I’m learning now is how little some people know about the Bible and the church and how much some people know to the point it makes them overly- intellectual!! Any ideas or thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
I was a born and raised evangelical- so Bible was a huge emphasis in my spiritual formation. While my class does have organization to it, including a syllabus that covers all the important topics, the participants fall into several less than ideal categories. The first category has little to no knowledge of the Bible or Church teachings. They express their views (many I must say are blasphemy!) and our RCIA leaders often do not correct them or tell them what the church actually teaches! I feel like I’m at a Unitarian Church gathering, not Catholic.
The other category includes people who are way too overly-intellectual about theology. They are theology students at local universities and they want to debate the deep meanings of the Old Testament text and languages. Way over the heads of many of our class (some members of our class don’t even speak English as their first language), and while I don’t like jumping to conclusions, sometimes I doubt their sincerity in wanting to become Catholic. It’s more like they want to show off how much they know, it’s not about their heart or the salvation of their soul.
Others are there to join the Church b/c their partner is Catholic and they want to get married in the church. I think this is just a lousy reason to become Catholic and if you haven’t decided on that faith before your spouse (or his mom) “talked you into it” then you should think long and hard about your motivation for joining. (I’m also strongly against missionary dating, as you can probably tell!)
At the end of the night I leave frazzled and upset, too many talkers in my group and I never really get a chance to voice the fact that I disagree with probably 90% of what is said. The priest leading our group is cool and I’m assuming orthodox but he isn’t always there. The other leaders have about 5 years between the 3 of them of being Catholic, and they seem to only want to emphasize how radically Vatican II impacted the Church. They rarely confront the views presented by class members which are contrary to the Bible and Church teaching.
I’m sorry, but I don’t want to join a church that “radically” changes its views every couple centuries or so. My understanding is that Vatican II developed theology and practices that were already in place, but I didn’t think it changed “everything” (as my leaders seem to imply). Are they right? Have I been greatly deceived that the Church is the same church it has been all through the ages, blossoming its theology like a flower? Or is it something totally different than I thought?
I am pulling my hair out! I’m not learning a thing! And for the first time since I started exploring Catholicism over 2.5 years ago, I’m starting to have doubts about joining the church. I mean my gosh, why can’t they pull it together?
This is a rant, I hope no one out there takes offense, but I am just so frustrated. I joined RCIA to learn about the church, all I’m learning now is how little some people know about the Bible and the church and how much some people know to the point it makes them overly- intellectual!! Any ideas or thoughts would be greatly appreciated.