Monster Inlaw

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RMA:
When I call my Mom she never asks or talks about my wife. My wife is tired of it, and wants me to stop calling her. My sister in law says she never wants to see me again, but denies to everyone she made that statement. And we haven’t visited for 4 years. My brother doesn’t talk to me and never returns my phone call (Stopped several years ago.)
What really bothers my wife and I , is that my Mom loves my sister in law and brother. That cannot do wrong. I know they have a better social life than we do and they always seem to have the whole family on their side, and are the angels of the family…My wife and I are the black sheep of the family. We can’t do anything right, and never are believed when we try to defend ourselves.
I can give you the objective side of this story and tell you my wife is non-catholic. My brother and sister in law have kids, we don’t.
We just feel the chill in the air, andmy wife wants me to stop all communicatiosn
Sorry for going on so long, just needed to hear some words about this.
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Dear RMA,
I’m sorry you have a painful time with your family. My inlaws were difficult at times too.
Have you tried just telling you mother how things are going with you wife when you talk to her? Talk as if you assume she’s interested in your wife and what she’s doing. Tell her that your wife sends her love.
I like calling people on their attitudes: I say things like, it seems like you have a problem with us. Do you really want us to leave? And don’t forget to pray for them. Have you got friends in your church? That may help make up for the lack of family support.
You’re in our prayers.
 
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