Have you ever talked to people that went through Catholic education? I didn’t actually mind it to be honest. I know a lot of people that actually HATE Catholoicism after it. Two of my friends are full blown atheists despite (or you could say “likely caused by”) their Catholic education. When you promote a message that is going to cause self hatred and guilt for something that is completely natural and normal (talk to any psychologist and ask them if masturbation is a normal action), you are going to get a backlash.
I am a convert and went the RCIA program so I can only speak to that process. I loved it, I found it was not complete but it in no taught “self hatred and guilt”.
As for asking a psychologist, that is like saying to someone “Does God exist? Go ask an atheist, they will tell you.”
I don’t hate the Catholic Church, I just don’t agree with some of the stances the church takes on Condoms, homosexuality, and masturbation/premarital sex. I bet most people in the world have a problem with at least one of those teachings, and many of them are practicing Catholics.
I really am not qualified to say how most people in world feel about something, but I can say that most Catholics whom have actually read and learned what the church teaches on those subjects, agree with the church.
I have been pushing a book that I recently read because it seriously opened my eyes to how the God and the church view sex (premarital and marital, homosexuality, condoms, masturbation.) “Good News About Sex & Marriage” by Christopher West explains in simple terms the teaching of the Church. Please read this and then comeback to debate this topic.
And I have actually talked to priests that didn’t agree with some of the things the pope did. Have you ever talked to Jesuits? I went on a Jesuit retreat and one of the priests mentioned that they did not agree with a lot of the things the pope was saying. Does that make them bad Catholics, or free thinkers?
There is a difference between disagreeing with a pope (current and past) and disagreeing with the Catholic Church. The dogma of the church has actually not changed that much. Catholic have concepts that form the core of what we believe. These things can not be changed, not even by the pope. These are Truths if you will.
The pope has the ability to speak infallibly.
catholic.com/library/Papal_Infallibility.asp if you want to read it all.
“Other people wonder how infallibility could exist if some popes disagreed with others. This, too, shows an inaccurate understanding of infallibility, which applies only to solemn, official teachings on faith and morals, not to disciplinary decisions or even to unofficial comments on faith and morals. A pope’s private theological opinions are not infallible, only what he solemnly defines is considered to be infallible teaching.”
I think gets at what you are talking about, with a priest disagreeing with a pope. Otherwise, the priest would be committing a mortal sin.
What about things that the Catholics have conceded to be wrong? What about if you lived at the time of the inquisition and you spoke out against it? Is that a mortal sin because you were going against the church, or would that have been the right thing to do (at least knowing now that the Church apologized and said it was wrong.)
So, if you were around during the inquisition, would you speak out against it? And if you did, going against the Church, would you be comitting a mortal sin? And if not, how do you know the Church teachings on some of the things I mentioned will not get changed in the future and you will have to re think your theology. The Catholic Church changes their minds on things, so maybe the priests I am talking about that don’t agree with the Church’s teachings are ahead of the curve. Or are you too dense to see that as a possibility?
Again, the main theology of the Church has not really changed. Try reading the Catholic account of the history of the Inquisition.
catholic.com/library/Inquisition.asp