[. What should I say (or what are you guys planning on saying to people) when they ask what we have to say regarding a film like this? Or the situation in general? Luckly, I have never been approaced with comments regarding a sex scandal in the church, I have never had to think about what should be said.](. What should I say (or what are you guys planning on saying to people) when they ask what we have to say regarding a film like this? Or the situation in general? Luckly, I have never been approaced with comments regarding a sex scandal in the church, I have never had to think about what should be said.)
I will probably say, yes, it happened. And I will probably say that one movie would only scratch the surface of the problem.
I worked with priests who are guilty of this. I remember more than one “emergency faculty meeting” that started; “If any members of the press approach you today…remain silent”
One actually did go to jail. One was relocated after a scandal and actually beagn to rewrite his resume to leave out his last school. Yes, that would be lying.
Philadelphia DA had posted on their home page their entire investigation into the sex abuse by by priests. Over 400 pages. In fact, I linked to it 2 days on another thread. It has vanished! Nope, here it is, slightly hidden.
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I don’t recommend reading it unless you really HAVE to know about it. I found it absolutely painful to see priests I knew listed in that document. And to read time and time again, how the same two monsignors were sent out to the complaintant’s family for damage control. They said the same thing every time. First question, “have you talked to a lawyer about this?” You really shouldn’t. Next line, “this priest has NEVER done ANYTHING like this before and we’re going to get him help. Will you do your part and keep it quiet?”
That was more or less the formula with variations from case to case.
I lost one of my heros reading that thing…and confirmed alot of suspicions, too.