Fact is that there are many happy Muslim converts to Islam, including women. A Muslim woman can be a happy one, just as you get many content Jewish and Christian women.
And some of these ‘happy converts’ as you call them cant wait till they get back to their original religion. 75% in fact when they find out what the real islam is and not the watered down version of islam.
councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=4198.0
I’ve heard the following reasons stated for WOMEN converting to Islam.
- The focus on the sisterhood of all Muslimah (female Muslims). Indeed, Muslim women stick together and support one another. Nearly every mosque I’ve been to has women’s meetings and groups.
That is because they need support groups, as women in islam are treated rather poorly.
There are several passages suggesting women are beneath men, not as smart as men, can be beaten by their husband, more women in hell than men etc. Of course you are going to need a support group dealing with issues, and many others like these!
- The focus on inner beauty (and modesty). Islam teaches that a woman is not just about looks, something the West seems to have largely forgotten, and that she should be respected for the person she is, not just her looks. Hence the long clothes and hijab. Women in Islam ARE valued, despite what you might want to believe.
Here’s a hadith which proves my point:
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was asked: Who among the people and after Allah should we be close to and respect? He replied: Your mother. Then who is next he was asked. He replied: Your mother. He was asked again as to who was next. Your mother, he replied, and then your father.
Why are you comparing the west against a religion? The ‘west’ isnt a Christian religion the last time i checked, however, Catholicism is a religion, and I will compare islam with that.
Catholics do dress modestly, in fact, i myself dress modestly.
Here is what the bible says:
1 tim 9 Similarly, women are to wear suitable clothes and to be dressed quietly and modestly, without braided hair or gold and jewellery or expensive clothes;
10 their adornment is to do the good works that are proper for women who claim to be religious.
Ive been to Egypt, and i can assure you, women are not respected, they are harrassed on a daily basis, in saudi, they cant drive, cant go out without a male relative, have to sit in the back of shops etc, do you call that respecting women?? And i wont even start on how the taliban treat women!
- Islam teaches the value of family, again something which is lacking in the West. Islam teaches that the most important unit is the family, with both parents having a role in bringing up children. Children are taught to respect BOTH their parents, including their mother (see that above hadith for evidence).
And Christianity doesnt teach this??? Have you been locked in a cupboard???
Eph 6 1 Children, be obedient to your parents in the Lord – that is what uprightness demands.
2 The first commandment that has a promise attached to it is: Honour your father and your mother,
3 and the promise is: so that you may have long life and prosper in the land.
4 And parents, never drive your children to resentment but bring them up with correction and advice inspired by the Lord.
- Islam teaches that women were created with an EQUAL status to men. From Surah Al-Nisa:
O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women.
I dont see how this says women and men are equal, however, there is an abundance of text showing how women are less superior than man. Refer to the link above.
There’s also the simplicity of the Islamic theological system and the discipline which Islam requires which may also be a draw for women converts.
In short, Islam is not as bad as you’re making it out to be.
Yes it is.