I don’t doubt that this was your experience with “so-called moderates,” (who by definition wouldn’t have been moderate at all) but my family’s experience with Pakistanis in Brooklyn, NY was entirely the opposite. In the conversations I had with them, they accused extremists for all the damage to Islamic-Christian relations, and the Moslem’s I know, including my cardiologist, are truly moderate…
And, they were fine acquaintances - my wife has a serious Stage 4 cancer, and we were touched that a Moslem father of one of her Pakistani students who was about to go on the Hajj promised to pray for her when he got to Mecca. He didn’t have to make that spontaneous gesture.