Must we forgive the unrepentant?

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Mercy most certainly *does *aid the unrepentant.
I’m not sure how this cannot be understood in the Christian context.
What, then, is the meaning of this: “T*o receive his mercy, we must admit our faults”?*

Yes, mercy is a standing offer, but mercy is not received without repentance, and how is it of aid if it is not received?
The Church does not give absolution to the unrepentant, and neither does God give the unrepentant salvation.
So, what is given the unrepentant? It would appear to be neither mercy (from above) nor forgiveness: "The church can forgive nothing except to a penitent."

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What, then, is the meaning of this: “To receive his mercy, we must admit our faults”?

Yes, mercy is a standing offer, but mercy is not received without repentance, and how is it of aid if it is not received?
So, what is given the unrepentant? It would appear to be neither mercy (from above) nor forgiveness: "The church can forgive nothing except to a penitent."

Ender
Recognize the difference between Creator and creature is not by degree but categorical. The former is sinless; the latter all sinners (save one). Therefore, in forgiving sin God’s way cannot be our way.

All sin is against God, a misuse of His creature. All Christian sinners seek reconciliation with God. The sinless (God) need not forgive but He may do so conditionally and does. He requires repentance and conversion of heart.

Sinners, on the other hand, always beggars at God’s door for His forgiveness, may not as sinners themselves impose conditions on other sinners to forgive transgressions. In fact, God instructs sinners specifically to forgive unconditionally in order that they may obtain His forgiveness.
 
God instructs sinners specifically to forgive unconditionally in order that they may obtain His forgiveness.
I understand why you believe this, but nowhere is this explicitly stated; this is a conclusion you have drawn. In contrast to this, it is explicitly stated that we are to forgive conditionally: the condition being that the sinner must repent.
*And if the same person sins against you seven times a day, and turns back to you seven times and says, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive.” *(Lk 17:4)
What are the grounds for ignoring this instruction? How do you interpret this?

Ender
 
I understand why you believe this, but nowhere is this explicitly stated; this is a conclusion you have drawn. In contrast to this, it is explicitly stated that we are to forgive conditionally: the condition being that the sinner must repent.
And if the same person sins against you seven times a day, and turns back to you seven times and says, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive.” (Lk 17:4)
What are the grounds for ignoring this instruction? How do you interpret this?

Ender
Restating and simplifying the instruction for analysis:

“If a sinner repents then you have a duty to forgive.”

The contrapositive follows which must also be true.

“If you have no duty to forgive then the sinner does not repent.”

The instruction, however, is not equivocal with the statement I think you make: “If the sinner does not repent then you have no duty to forgive.”
 
What, then, is the meaning of this: “To receive his mercy, we must admit our faults”?
It means just what it says. To receive his mercy, we must admit our faults. 🤷
Again, it’s a relationship, not a transaction.
It’s not like mercy is ordered up, paid for, and delivered. One party faithfully offers it, always. The other party is invited to respond.
Yes, mercy is a standing offer, but mercy is not received without repentance, and how is it of aid if it is not received?
The offering of mercy aids the offender regardless of his state, because as JP2 said in the quote above, mercy is the power for conversion.

The conversation is getting circular.
 
clem -

It keeps coming back to offering vs actually granting forgiveness. When I think of it in the context of a pardon for a criminal it is easier for me to understand. If the Governor merely offers to pardon you, that’s great, but you will remain in prison until he actually grants the pardon.

In the same way, God always **offers **forgiveness. But no one is actually forgiven (if we define forgiveness as being “saved” or “redeemed”) without repentance. It is only upon repentance that we are actually forgiven (i.e., saved, redeemed).

I get what you are saying about a relationship. It’s not “transactional.” But it remains that it takes 2 people for a relationship to exist. Unilateral action does not establish or create a relationship. I think I see what you are saying to some extent - that the fact that God offers forgiveness / mercy is what elicits our response.
 
In about a week I will be at a men’s conference where a man named Captain Guy Gruters will speak about the topic of forgiveness. He was a POW in Vietnam. I am eager to hear what he has to say about forgiveness in light of this thread.
 
clem -

It keeps coming back to offering vs actually granting forgiveness. When I think of it in the context of a pardon for a criminal it is easier for me to understand. If the Governor merely offers to pardon you, that’s great, but you will remain in prison until he actually grants the pardon.

**In the same way, God always **offers ****forgiveness.
And so your question is “must we forgive the unrepentant?”
How do you answer your own question?
But no one is actually forgiven (if we define forgiveness as being “saved” or “redeemed”) without repentance. It is only upon repentance that we are actually forgiven (i.e., saved, redeemed).
How do you know when a person has contrition, or has repented, given that a particular person may never tell you they’ve repented, and you are not present to hear their thoughts and prayers. Since we are not God, how do you know a person is “worthy” of your forgiveness?
If not, how do you answer your own question “Must we forgive the unrepentant?”
(not to contribute to anyone’s anxiety, but isn’t the greater danger in not forgiving someone who is repentant, and you do not know it?)

Why would you ever want to err on the side of warped justice? Think about the relative dangers of the two courses of action.
  1. You forgive 70x7 without counting the cost or imposing your own determination of justice on a person. A person is unrepentant. You forgive and your offer is met with presumption, or you are taken advantage of. And so…? What are the consequences to you?
  2. You withhold forgiveness and a person might be repentant and you don’t know about it. Very bad.
Which of these is the greatest risk to you?
I get what you are saying about a relationship. It’s not “transactional.” But it remains that it takes 2 people for a relationship to exist. Unilateral action does not establish or create a relationship. I think I see what you are saying to some extent - that the fact that God offers forgiveness / mercy is what elicits our response.
What happens when two people stand there with their arms folded?
Nothing.
God takes the radical step of offering us himself in mercy, while we were still sinners.
He does not fear being taken advantage of. He does not fear that justice will be ignored.

Radical forgiveness can help open the possibility for the offender to repent if he hasn’t already done so.
 
clem -
It keeps coming back to offering vs actually granting forgiveness. When I think of it in the context of a pardon for a criminal it is easier for me to understand. If the Governor merely offers to pardon you, that’s great, but you will remain in prison until he actually grants the pardon.
Please do bring back information. Especially links to anything you may feel we can learn from.
And so your question is “must we forgive the unrepentant?”
How do you answer your own question?

How do you
know when a person has contrition, or has repented, given that a particular person may never tell you they’ve repented, and you are not present to hear their thoughts and prayers. Since we are not God, how do you know a person is “worthy” of your forgiveness?
If not, how do you answer your own question “Must we forgive the unrepentant?”
(not to contribute to anyone’s anxiety, but isn’t the greater danger in not forgiving someone who is repentant, and you do not know it?)

Why would you ever want to err on the side of warped justice? Think about the relative dangers of the two courses of action.
  1. You forgive 70x7 without counting the cost or imposing your own determination of justice on a person. A person is unrepentant. You forgive and your offer is met with presumption, or you are taken advantage of. And so…? What are the consequences to you?
  2. You withhold forgiveness and a person might be repentant and you don’t know about it. Very bad.
Which of these is the greatest risk to you?

What happens when two people stand there with their arms folded?
Nothing.
God takes the radical step of offering us himself in mercy, while we were still sinners.
He does not fear being taken advantage of. He does not fear that justice will be ignored.

Radical forgiveness can help open the possibility for the offender to repent if he hasn’t already done so.

Beautiful answer clem :clapping:
 
“If a sinner repents then you have a duty to forgive.”
Yes, this is what is said in Luke.
The contrapositive follows which must also be true.
“If you have no duty to forgive then the sinner does not repent.”
But this is demonstrably not true. As you pointed out, the perpetrator and the victim act independently of one another, and there are surely innumerable cases where the victim did not forgive the sinner yet the sinner repented anyway.
The instruction, however, is not equivocal with the statement I think you make: “If the sinner does not repent then you have no duty to forgive.”
That seems a likelier conclusion than the one that says “If the sinner does not repent you have a duty to forgive anyway.” If forgiveness is not tied to repentance then how does one make sense out of Christ’s declaration in Luke?

If repentance is not a requirement for forgiveness, why would it have been included in the instruction? In Matthew, no mention is made of repentance, and it would be reasonable to assume that no such requirement exists. Luke, however, explicitly ties forgiveness to repentance, but this would be a meaningless distinction if we are to forgive period.

Ender
 
But God does forgive, He gives His mercy and love. Yes the penitent must then do something, repent, but the forgiveness is there no matter what.
Your assertion does not seem to square with this:“Receive the Holy Spirit. Whose sins you shall forgive, they are forgiven; whose sins you shall retain, they are retained.”
That some sins are forgiven but others are not certainly seems to show that forgiveness is not there no matter what.
*“The church can forgive nothing except to a penitent, that is to say, to a person whom Christ has touched with his grace: Christ does not wish to consider anything forgiven in a person who despises the church”: *(Blessed Isaac of Stella)
Again, this shows that forgiveness, at least on the part of Christ and the church, is conditional.

I will say, however, that this still leaves open the possibility that the individual is called to forgive regardless, but it is worth pointing out that the individual cannot forgive another person’s sin; we simply don’t have that authority. We may forgive him for his injury to us, but if he remains unrepentant, his sin is not forgiven.

Ender
 
Your assertion does not seem to square with this:“Receive the Holy Spirit. Whose sins you shall forgive, they are forgiven; whose sins you shall retain, they are retained.”
That some sins are forgiven but others are not certainly seems to show that forgiveness is not there no matter what.
I may be wrong but I believe this passage is more about Jesus giving the 12 the gifts of the holy spirit. Telling them to go out and convert the world to Christ’s Church. Basically making them what we know today as priests. Remember in that time everyone was still in need of baptism which which removed all sin up to that point. It also gave the 12 the authority to hear confession and grant absolution. This is my understanding of the passage.
"The church can forgive nothing except to a penitent, that is to say, to a person whom Christ has touched with his grace: Christ does not wish to consider anything forgiven in a person who despises the church": (Blessed Isaac of Stella)
Again, this shows that forgiveness, at least on the part of Christ and the church, is conditional
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Only in the sense that the person must do something i.e. repent, to actually make use of the grace of forgiveness. This may be a bad analogy but…Many of us keep tylenol in the cabinet for headaches. The tylenol is there but being there, in & of itself, does not cure the headache. We must take the tylenol to rid ourselves of the headache.
I will say, however, that this still leaves open the possibility that the individual is called to forgive regardless, but it is worth pointing out that the individual cannot forgive another person’s sin; we simply don’t have that authority. We may forgive him for his injury to us, but if he remains unrepentant, his sin is not forgiven.
Yes. Because we are not God, we have no right to cast judgement on others, yes we must forgive. By that I mean we may not hold ill will toward anyone in our hearts or minds.
 
Yes, this is what is said in Luke.
But this is demonstrably not true. …

Ender
The truth value of conditional statements is well understood and accepted by logicians.

If the conditional is true then its contrapositive must be true.

The contrapositive I offered, “If you have no duty to forgive then the sinner does not repent,” is demonstrably true as because it says nothing positive; both its hypothesis and conclusion are negated. If not, then not.

To paraphrase: “If you (the transgressed) have ‘nothing’ then the sinner does ‘nothing’.”

I think you mistakenly insert the bi-conditional “if, and only if” into Luke’s instruction:
“If, and only if, the sinner repents then we have a duty to forgive.”

The bi-conditional is more restrictive in defining when the duty to forgive obtains. The simple conditional indicates the duty to forgive obtains when the sinner repents but does not limit the duty to forgive to only the sinner’s repentance.

To complete the logical analysis:

The inverse of the conditional “If the sinner repents then we have a duty to forgive”:
  1. “If the sinner does not repent then we have no duty to forgive."
The converse:
2) “If we have a duty to forgive then the sinner repents.”

Either both the inverse and converse of the conditional are true or they are both false. You have already agreed that the converse (2) is false. Logically, you must also agree that the inverse (1), the position you have held, is also false.
 
Your assertion does not seem to square with this:“Receive the Holy Spirit. Whose sins you shall forgive, they are forgiven; whose sins you shall retain, they are retained.”
That some sins are forgiven but others are not certainly seems to show that forgiveness is not there no matter what.
"The church can forgive nothing except to a penitent, that is to say, to a person whom Christ has touched with his grace: Christ does not wish to consider anything forgiven in a person who despises the church": (Blessed Isaac of Stella)
Again, this shows that forgiveness, at least on the part of Christ and the church, is conditional.

I will say, however, that this still leaves open the possibility that the individual is called to forgive regardless, but it is worth pointing out that the individual cannot forgive another person’s sin; we simply don’t have that authority. We may forgive him for his injury to us, but if he remains unrepentant, his sin is not forgiven.

Ender
There is a difference between forgiveness of one individual to another, and absolution.
The OP question is
“Must we forgive the unrepentant?”

Given all the scripture passages etc…I’m not sure how this obligation can be avoided and still be in God’s good graces.
 
I may be wrong but I believe this passage is more about Jesus giving the 12 the gifts of the holy spirit. Telling them to go out and convert the world to Christ’s Church. Basically making them what we know today as priests.
Be that as it may, it seems the meaning of the passage is clear: not all things are forgiven. That’s the point I’m trying to convey.
Only in the sense that the person must do something i.e. repent, to actually make use of the grace of forgiveness. This may be a bad analogy but…Many of us keep tylenol in the cabinet for headaches. The tylenol is there but being there, in & of itself, does not cure the headache. We must take the tylenol to rid ourselves of the headache.
I think that’s a reasonable analogy. Relief is available to us, but it requires a prior act on our part to attain it.
Because we are not God, we have no right to cast judgement on others, yes we must forgive. By that I mean we may not hold ill will toward anyone in our hearts or minds.
Be careful here. That we may not judge the extent of ones responsibility for his sin against us does not mean we cannot judge him to have sinned against us in the first place. It is not all judgments that have been denied us, only judgments about things we cannot know.

Ender
 
There is a difference between forgiveness of one individual to another, and absolution.
The OP question is
“Must we forgive the unrepentant?”

Given all the scripture passages etc…I’m not sure how this obligation can be avoided and still be in God’s good graces.
Hi Clem, I tend to agree with you. My question is how should that forgiveness look?
I know in my heart, mind and soul that I love and forgive my perpetrators but others don’t believe I have because I don’t seem to be doing what they believe I should be doing if I truly have forgiven them and do love them.
So what or how should forgiveness look?
 
Be that as it may, it seems the meaning of the passage is clear: not all things are forgiven. That’s the point I’m trying to convey.
I think that’s a reasonable analogy. Relief is available to us, but it requires a prior act on our part to attain it.
Ender
How did Jesus love all his neighbours as he loved himself? Those who condemned him to death and nailed him to the cross?
 
The truth value of conditional statements is well understood and accepted by logicians.

If the conditional is true then its contrapositive must be true.
I was not familiar with this concept, but I accept it as logically valid. I will point out, however, that logic only guarantees that the answer is logically valid…not that it is true.
The contrapositive I offered, “If you have no duty to forgive then the sinner does not repent,” is demonstrably true as because it says nothing positive; both its hypothesis and conclusion are negated.
It’s taken me a while to figure out a response to this. Let’s take a different example. In “American Sniper”, Chris Kyle had overwatch responsibility for the marines he was serving with. His orders essentially were “If a person threatens the marines, then shoot him.” The contrapositive of that would be “If he is not shot then he is not a threat.” This is clearly a false answer even though it is logically valid.

“If he threatens then shoot him” is in exactly the same format as “If he repents then forgive him”; what is true of one will be true of the other. The problem is, arguing that “we should forgive him whether he repents or not” is the same as arguing “we should shoot him whether he threatens or not.”

The application of these logical conclusions fails in these cases not because the logic is faulty but because they do not cover the entire set of possible actions. Your comment was a good one; I learned something about logic trying to address it.
I think you mistakenly insert the bi-conditional “if, and only if” into Luke’s instruction:
“If, and only if, the sinner repents then we have a duty to forgive.”
Yes, this is (pretty much) the question.
The bi-conditional is more restrictive in defining when the duty to forgive obtains. The simple conditional indicates the duty to forgive obtains when the sinner repents but does not limit the duty to forgive to only the sinner’s repentance.
If the bi-conditional does not apply in the case of “If he repents then I must forgive”, then how can it be said to apply in the case of “If he threatens then I must shoot”? We might want a person to forgive whether or not someone repents, but we surely do not want the sniper to shoot someone who does not threaten, but what is the logical case where I can argue for the former but not the latter?
Either both the inverse and converse of the conditional are true or they are both false. You have already agreed that the converse (2) is false. Logically, you must also agree that the inverse (1), the position you have held, is also false.
You agreed that if the statement is true then the contrapositive must be true, yet we see from the sniper case above this is not always correct. My agreeing that the converse is false is no more damaging to my position than the fact that the contrapositive is false damages yours. This logic does not apply to these cases because they do not cover the entire set of possible actions.

Ender
 
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