clem -
It keeps coming back to offering vs actually granting forgiveness. When I think of it in the context of a pardon for a criminal it is easier for me to understand. If the Governor merely offers to pardon you, that’s great, but you will remain in prison until he actually grants the pardon.
Please do bring back information. Especially links to anything you may feel we can learn from.
And so your question is “must we forgive the unrepentant?”
How do you answer your own question?
How do you
know when a person has contrition, or has repented, given that a particular person may never tell you they’ve repented, and you are not present to hear their thoughts and prayers. Since we are not God, how do you know a person is “worthy” of your forgiveness?
If not, how do you answer your own question “Must we forgive the unrepentant?”
(not to contribute to anyone’s anxiety, but isn’t the greater danger in not forgiving someone who is repentant, and you do not know it?)
Why would you ever want to err on the side of warped justice? Think about the relative dangers of the two courses of action.
- You forgive 70x7 without counting the cost or imposing your own determination of justice on a person. A person is unrepentant. You forgive and your offer is met with presumption, or you are taken advantage of. And so…? What are the consequences to you?
- You withhold forgiveness and a person might be repentant and you don’t know about it. Very bad.
Which of these is the greatest risk to you?
What happens when two people stand there with their arms folded?
Nothing.
God takes the radical step of offering us himself in mercy, while we were still sinners.
He does not fear being taken advantage of. He does not fear that justice will be ignored.
Radical forgiveness can help open the possibility for the offender to repent if he hasn’t already done so.
Beautiful answer clem :clapping: