My first battering in the apologetics arena

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I don’t know how to quote from multiple posts yet, so I’ll just echo what a couple people said. I really like what bilop said in the very first reply about putting our faith not in the scriptures, but in the authority of the church founded by Christ, which gave us scripture. I think it’s safe to say that’s got more power to it than scripture by itself, don’t you;)

I also really liked what ziapueblo said about keeping it on one topic. You’ll often get alot of different questions about different topics thrown at you at once. Just politely refer them back to the original question that you were already answering, and keep it there, doing that more than once if you have to. There’s a great talk on this done by John Martignoni that you can get for free at www.biblechristiansociety.com. I think it’s a good one for the position you’re in right now. Good luck saturday and in future talks as well.
 
Maybe if you could find a way to do it less bluntly? “Say, buddy, do you happy Satan is happy with all the different churches running around each claiming to have the truth”?
That’s good! I’ll have to keep that line in mind. 🙂

Subtlety has never been my strong point. :eek:

I would tell them, historically, that the original church was the Catholic Church and then I’d ask him: “So… are you going to believe nearly two millennia of unbroken authority or 500 years of contradiction, chaos, disagreement, division, and error?”
 
I don’t know how to quote from multiple posts yet, so I’ll just echo what a couple people said. I really like what bilop said in the very first reply about putting our faith not in the scriptures, but in the authority of the church founded by Christ, which gave us scripture. I think it’s safe to say that’s got more power to it than scripture by itself, don’t you;)

I also really liked what ziapueblo said about keeping it on one topic. You’ll often get alot of different questions about different topics thrown at you at once. Just politely refer them back to the original question that you were already answering, and keep it there, doing that more than once if you have to. There’s a great talk on this done by John Martignoni that you can get for free at www.biblechristiansociety.com. I think it’s a good one for the position you’re in right now. Good luck saturday and in future talks as well.
Thank you for that link. 🙂
 
Lots of good advice here. I’ll just add my :twocents:

There really isn’t any reason for you to go and try to face this guy down in a mini-apologetics thing. There will be plenty of time for that. Right now you should just concentrate on learning and growing in faith and getting ready for Easter.

Trust me, when this guy got your email about talking on Sat he set himself to the task of getting ready to swamp you with every anti-Catholic thing he believes. It’s just not worth it right now, bro.

One thing Catholic converts learn quickly is that they are like the doctor at the party. Everyone ends up wanting to ask them a question about something.

In the Catholic’s case, there will be questioners which run the gamut from hostile to truly interested----and everywhere and everyone in between. You’ll see inquisitive people, fake-nice people, angry people----it will happen for the rest of your Catholic life, man—there’s plenty of time for it.

Another thing is that, despite appearances, HARDLY ANYONE knows the bible like you think they do. Or, to put it another way, hardly anyone who acts like this guy acts truly knows the bible.

What they know are proof texts, which are simply lines from the bible which they use to “prove” their point. It always goes like this:

They’ll say:
"We know that Catholics [insert mischaracterization here]__. Yet the Word of God clearly says in Ethiopians 13:2 [insert passage here]. Which shows us that Catholics are quite wrong by believing __________.

And on and on. They simply memorize these passages which they have taken out of context and confidently “prove” themselves right and Catholics (or whoever) wrong. It’s fakery, and the goal is to get you to doubt yourself and your faith, then they will fill that gap with TRUTH from their “bible-believing” church.

Next time someone does that to you, ask them simple questions. Say, “That is very interesting. When was that written?” Or, “Who were the Colossians?” Or “What was Paul’s purpose in writing that letter to them?” Or ask them to tell you—without looking–the passage immediately before or after that one.

Or you might even do what I do----make up books of the bible and see if they notice. I will occasionally say things like “Yet in Paul’s Letter to the Philadelphians we see that…” Or “The Old Testament shows us in the Book of Herod that…”

Look—know your bible better than them. Know when each book was written, who it’s author was, and the purpose of the letter. Then start memorizing passages. You know that and you’ll know the bible better than 99% of the Christians you meet.

When he plays the “Why the statues? Why the rosary?” game, simply say it’s not mandatory, it’s not essential. Then ask them, “Why do you have crosses?” Or “Why do you have guitars?” Or “Why do you have a preacher?” Or “Why do you go to a building called a ‘church’ ?”

All of us can play that silly game he is playing. It’s just that jillions of people care about what the Catholic Church believes…and hardly anyone cares about what “Third Baptist Bible Church” (or whatever) believes.

I really have to say, though—please reconsider any sort of apologetics activity during these last few wonderful months. This really is one of the greatest times of your life and you should consider concentrating on your conversion. There is so so so so much time for all that other stuff.

Enjoy the next several months instead of worrrying about this battle or that argument. Better to spend the next few months learning the faith and thinking and mulling over your life’s path. Read the catechism, which has so much depth it’s ridiculously wonderful. Read a book on church architecture and learn the meaning of all the various items and areas inside our churches. Learn the Church calendar. Read up on your confirmation saint.
Read about all the Christians which came before you and about those who gave their lives so you could be where you are this Easter. Learn about all of the various Rites (not just Latin) which make up the Catholic Church. Understand the beauty of the mass.

Think about Advent and Christmas and how you will be taking communion next year during Christmas mass. trust me—you do not want to be sitting in Christmas mass and thinking about how you should have said this or that to some guy who dislikes the faith. Disconnect from all of that argumentative stuff and mentally CONNECT to the timelessness of the faith you are entering into.

It’s all such a beautiful time for you----just enjoy it. Worry about all that apologetic (stuff) later. Trust me—THAT stuff never ends.
 
Ag_not–

Been there, done that! It’s God giving you an opportunity! I remember when I was learning more about our faith, the more I learned the more I had to defend. Always cool though because it seemed like alot of the timesit would be about a subject I had just learned! And the other times I was getting a little lax in my studies and someone would come along and fire me back up!

Here is some study help

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Scripture Catholic**
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Catholic Answers**
catholic.com/library/faith_tracts.asp

BibleGateway
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Well today, I’m working with a guy. He invites me to his Church. Seems like one of those little independent reformed baptist uniterian free episscopalian affairs - or something like that. I tell him Im grateful for the invite but I attend a catholic church and Im going to be received hopefully at easter.

He rolls his eyes. I say, dont tell me, WOB and all that - I dont want to hear it. He’s nice and says no, I have no problem with catholics. I know some nice ones. My only issue is Mary and Idol worship and Rosaries.
Hi Ag_not! 🙂

In my experience, anyone who rolls their eyes at me when I tell them I am Catholic pretty well ceases to be classed as “nice”. I don’t do that to them and I expect that same courtesy regardless of their opinion. But then I’m :irish1:.
So I explain my experiences, and he doesnt dismiss them. Like I said. He’s nice.
I then try to explain I dont worship statues. I dont honor Mary above God. I dont repeat pagan babbling phrases in the Rosary.
Good for you my friend. That took guts because it’s very much like a small child taking on a well armed and armored opponent, so I’m not surprised at all, at all that you feel like you got your head handed to you. Let’s see if I can help out here.
And I felt terrible. Empty. Everything he countered with made far more sense than anything I said. He was simple and polite. Asked nice easy questions. Example - Whats the point of the statues at all. I accept you dont worship them. I accept they direct your mind to God. But whats the point of them at all.
The point? He’s bein’ “an eejit” as we Irish often say.

As someone pointed out already, one doesn’t need photos of our friends and families, but we all have them. Have him pull out his wallet and ask him what’s the point?

Does he also take issue with all the statues in Washington DC? The statue of liberty? The beautiful sculptures and works of art in museums, some of which show us what people looked like thousands of years ago, and many of them are worthy of commemoration for things they have done.

In the case of the saints, these are depictions of them that remind us of their holy example with the goal of our imitation of their love and commitment to Christ. Does he also take issue with staues and images of Our Lord Himself? How silly.

He’s an iconoclast. Does he realize that that actually has it’s roots in Islam?
Iconoclasm: Or: Catholics Worship Graven Images NOT
You believe in transsubstanciation - so isnt just worshipping God alone enough.
Ah… if he can even pronounce that word then he’s not the “nice guy” you think he is but is actually someone who has an a-C agenda and has trained himself or been trained to use these arguments to disconcert the ill prepared Catholic. The sad part is that you are better prepared than many of our sisters and brothers. Let’s see if we can help that, okay?

Because of our belief in the Eucharistic Real Presence, we DO worship God alone, as taught in the New Testament. It is those who oppose this very scriptural doctrine who have strayed from the truth. Plesae feel free to print out the following article which will bury him the both teh scriptural and early church teaching on this.
The Eucharist IS Scriptural
Why the candles in front of a statue of a saint. ???
A good question here is simply, “why not?” He can’t make a good case against it because there is nothing in the Bible that would even hint at a prohibition. If he then wants to attack (and that is precisely what this eejit is doing)
The Intercession & Communion of Saints

let him have at it, but here again, his Bible will not support him.
And he had more. Tons more. And every answer I gave just seemed laughable even to my own ears.
You forgot one very simple and crtitcally important point my dear friend. He’s made his whole case on Sola Scriptura which is itself a modern error and new wind of doctrine that is itself not found within the Word of God nor the teachings of the Early Church. This is the first response that I often make when such people come my way mainly because it cuts to the chase and causes virtually every attack they have lined up to crumble because until they can make a viable case for it, all the rest of their beliefs (which have cascaded down from that fundamental error) they cannot proceed. (Though I can assure you that they will want to sidestep it after popped off some “proof texts”, but you need simply challenge them to show you that explicit teaching in scripture, and refuse to proceed further until they do so.
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He knew his Bible. Every single phrase and statement he came out with, he backed it up with Old and new testament scripture. And it all made perfect sense. And everything I recountrered with, just sounded laughable.
Like I said, that’s because you got drawn into a scriptural sword fight and your poor dear self carrying only a mere pocketknife at this time.:console:
But he was kind, and didnt laugh. And respected the fact I was going to join the catholic church.
But I was left feeling empty, and stupid, and dumb, and disillusioned.
Im no apologist that’s for sure - but the most uncomfortable thing was I was left feeling so inadequate.
Oh well. Every day cant be a good day I guess.
I’m sorry you suffered this. This dude would’ve lasted about 10.25 seconds with me or even with you later as you come to better know our most holy faith.

Do like I did. Make this the catalyst that gets you really reading your Bible and studying the faith to find the answers for yourself and prepare for next time…because there will indeed be a next time. Count on it little sister of mine.🙂
 
THIS has lifted my spirits no end. One day closer to Easter 🙂 🙂 🙂

Thank you all for your support. I promise, I did put in a defence, I didnt just lay down and take it - I just didnt do a very good job.

Think Mike Tyson v. Ugly Betty - I took a whooping, but I was still came out better looking than he did 😛

I’m working with the guy on saturday. I’ve emailed him after reading your replies and Ive told him I appreciated our conversation today, but as someone going through initiation I dont think I did a very good job in explaining what I believe and why, so if he’s ok with it, I’d like to discuss the issue of Statues - and statues only - on saturday.

He emails back and says ‘‘cool’’ :eek: :cool:

Que theme music from Rocky. I gotta get up at 4am and start pounding the road man 😃
I dont quite know why - but Ive gone from feeling disillusioned and a bit flat to hyped up and excited now 😃 This is good for me I think. Im hyper on guard for being led astray which I wont be - but to be pitched against someone and hold my own defending the church I want to be part of so much with all my heart and soul - this is good for me. It’s a reality check for my understanding.
Bravo for you sister of mine!

Now be careful and remember what the real score is here with this eejit. This dude is looking for a convert, not an opponent, and you may well see a less nice side of him Saturday. The fact that he even knew to attack these things shows that he’s a trained a-C, so you are definitely gonna find yourself hip deep in alligators as you seek to drain the swamp, okay?

One more VERY important piece of counsel I would share with you. Begin today to bathe it all in prayer. Offer up Rosaries and especially The Divine Mercy Chaplet for both of you so that Our Lord’s Divine Mercy will prevail in your dialog.
 
I have to disagree with nps. I think the best way to learn about your faith is to face the questioning of non-believers. Face to face is harder than on the internet, though, because it doesn’t give you the research time to answer charges… That in mind, don’t feel you need to answer every question right away. It might even help to bring the catechism. (but know how to find things quickly in it before hand).

Keep in mind that proselytizers could make light of you if you don;t have ready answers. This is because of the differences in our belief systems. They beleive that everything is open to personal interpretation, so they think you should have a ready opinion on everything. We on the other hand, are not afraid to be led by those that know…
 
I have to disagree with nps. I think the best way to learn about your faith is to face the questioning of non-believers. Face to face is harder than on the internet, though, because it doesn’t give you the research time to answer charges… That in mind, don’t feel you need to answer every question right away. It might even help to bring the catechism. (but know how to find things quickly in it before hand).

Keep in mind that proselytizers could make light of you if you don;t have ready answers. This is because of the differences in our belief systems. They beleive that everything is open to personal interpretation, so they think you should have a ready opinion on everything. We on the other hand, are not afraid to be led by those that know…
“the best way to learn about your faith is to face the questioning of non-believers.”

Really?!? I’d say the best way to learn your faith is to study the catechism, learn the mass, learn the bible, learn church history, learn all the areas of disagreement. Facing down anti-Catholics may prod you to do these things, but that’s all it is----a prod.
Facing questions is very helpful—but why in the world should a person who is entering into and learning the faith put himself into that position?

Too many newcomers—and old hands— take the stance that they are entering into some sort of multi-national debating society. They miss out on appreciating the fact that they are entering into something timeless, truly beautiful, and life-changing. THAT’S what is important at this early stage.

He’ll be doing that debating stuff for the rest of his life.
 
I dont quite know why - but Ive gone from feeling disillusioned and a bit flat to hyped up and excited now 😃 This is good for me I think. Im hyper on guard for being led astray which I wont be - but to be pitched against someone and hold my own defending the church I want to be part of so much with all my heart and soul - this is good for me. It’s a reality check for my understanding.
I got some apologetics under my belt when I was assaulted with the “why do your worship statues?” question and although I knew the answer, I did not know how to frame it in a 25-word reply. People who toss these questions out are generally not looking for anything bigger than themselves, so you NEED the ready reply.

One technique I have used when I sense “the wall” is to ask with a look on my face that speaks “that’s the weirdest, dumbest thing I ever heard” while saying, “Where on earth did you get THAT idea?”
 
Don’t feel bad!

This guy has had many years to learn both the bible and his anti-Catholic prejudices. You are just starting. Someday you will see the holes in bible christians’ logic and traditions (yes, we have them! no, we don’t like to admit it!).

For now, if you are diligently studying and praying, being obedient to the holy spirit, no christian in the world should try to derail you, confuse you or discourage you.

Wait til you see a christian church with NO CROSS (“we don’t want to suggest in any way that we might practice idolatry”), but a big honkin’ American FLAG up front (“we want to be sure to advertise how conservative we are!”). …Makes me ill.
 
I have to disagree with nps. I think the best way to learn about your faith is to face the questioning of non-believers. Face to face is harder than on the internet, though, because it doesn’t give you the research time to answer charges… That in mind, don’t feel you need to answer every question right away. It might even help to bring the catechism. (but know how to find things quickly in it before hand).

Keep in mind that proselytizers could make light of you if you don;t have ready answers. This is because of the differences in our belief systems. They beleive that everything is open to personal interpretation, so they think you should have a ready opinion on everything. We on the other hand, are not afraid to be led by those that know…
Debating with non-Catholics on the internet can develop and help sharpen your skills for those face to face moments. Like I mentioned earlier, time and time again I have faced about every non-Catholic half-truth and whole lie on religious forums to where I have practically memorized most of the facts that I need in order to gracefully handle being confronted face to face by non-Catholics. This has helped me to look confident and informed and to not stumble around trying to defend the Faith, while also being able to recognize when someone knows just enough to be dangerous so I can be able to call them on it when they try to lay a bunch of bull-**** out there that sounds complicated and intellegent to those who are not well versed. The forums are a way to not only help clarify the faith to Catholics and non-Catholics but they are also a way to practice having apologetic dialogue with others.
 
you know what else you should bring up?

How about starting with,

“Let’s be honest about your motives. I can see that you’re trying to pick apart the tenets of my faith. Must we pretend that this is a discussion? You’re not asking me questions out of a genuine curiosity about catholicism. No matter how well I argue on behalf of catholicism, you know you’re only going to try to think of a clever retort. If you can give up your project of converting me, we might even have a constructive discussion about the values we share-- starting with a love of Christ!”

I’m sorry; I just know all too well how we bible christians think nothing of calling catholicism an “evil deception” and feeling that all catholics are in need of a rescue! He can’t really be concerned about your salvation; so your departure from catholicism would just be a feather in his cap.
 
Debating with non-Catholics on the internet can develop and help sharpen your skills for those face to face moments. Like I mentioned earlier, time and time again I have faced about every non-Catholic half-truth and whole lie on religious forums to where I have practically memorized most of the facts that I need in order to gracefully handle being confronted face to face by non-Catholics. This has helped me to look confident and informed and to not stumble around trying to defend the Faith, while also being able to recognize when someone knows just enough to be dangerous so I can be able to call them on it when they try to lay a bunch of bull-**** out there that sounds complicated and intellegent to those who are not well versed. The forums are a way to not only help clarify the faith to Catholics and non-Catholics but they are also a way to practice having apologetic dialogue with others.
Exactly. Discussing religion on the internet is a great way to not only learn your faith but also others. I spent 3 or 4 days discussing the differences between Catholicism and Mormonism in these pages earlier this week. I learned a tremendously about what the Mormon’s did and didn’t believe, part of it from them and part of it from the research I had to do to answer them. As luck would have it, this came in very handy last night as I was teaching a confirmation class about why Catholicism was the right choice versus all the Protestant denominations. One of the students asked about Mormonism and I was able to have a very cogent discussion of the issues that I would not have been able to have even a few days before…
 
you know what else you should bring up?

How about starting with,

“Let’s be honest about your motives. I can see that you’re trying to pick apart the tenets of my faith. Must we pretend that this is a discussion? You’re not asking me questions out of a genuine curiosity about catholicism. No matter how well I argue on behalf of catholicism, you know you’re only going to try to think of a clever retort. If you can give up your project of converting me, we might even have a constructive discussion about the values we share-- starting with a love of Christ!”

I’m sorry; I just know all too well how we bible christians think nothing of calling catholicism an “evil deception” and feeling that all catholics are in need of a rescue! He can’t really be concerned about your salvation; so your departure from catholicism would just be a feather in his cap.
Wow. What do you mean, “we”? You sound knowledgeable and you don’t sound like someone who would DO what you say here.

But one does often have the feeling that people are “after” us in a hostile way rather than out of an interest for our salvation.
 
Wow. What do you mean, “we”? You sound knowledgeable and you don’t sound like someone who would DO what you say here.
Hi, …yeah–

I’m an evangelical christian. I am: a) called by the holy spirit to-- at the least-- study catholicism; and b) totally fed up with a lot of nonsense in the evangelical community.

as you can see, one is much more laudable than the other. I am doing my best not to confuse the two.

I completely believe in arming people with a little, gentle “bible-foo.” You know, respectful self-defense. Somehow, so many of my fellow evangelicals assume that, as long as they have a scripture as an excuse, they can do whatever they want. And if they want to get out of something? Then they say the relevant bible verses were just “for the culture of the time,” (like not wearing complicated hairstyles and expensive jewelry; Lord knows ‘vanity’ is just one of those outdated, medieval sins!).

Anyhoo, I don’t like to hear about christians picking on one another. I’m tired of the rationalizations for that.
 
Do like I did. Make this the catalyst that gets you really reading your Bible and studying the faith to find the answers for yourself and prepare for next time…because there will indeed be a next time. Count on it little sister of mine.🙂
Bingo !!
Same for me.
I was the victim of an attack by my older brother’s in-laws (he left the faith). Ski trip, evening, wine and beer, then religion came up.
BAM!
The attack was on.
About a dozen of them all over me, rapid-fire style.
After that evening, I read everything I could get my hands on.

“Why do Catholics do that?”
“Where is THAT in the bible?”
“Why is THAT in tradition”
“Catholicism and Fundamentalism, the attack on ‘Romanism’ by ‘bible christians’”

Somebody already mentioned John Martignoni at the bible christian society (biblechristiansociety.com)).
GREAT stuff.
I love the guy.
Teaches you how to use logic in the conversation.
You can get his material for free.
If you aren’t comfortable using his talking points, go ahead and order a CD to hand to your friend.

Buck up soldier.
You will become better because of that one experience you had.

michel
 
“the best way to learn about your faith is to face the questioning of non-believers.”
Really?!? I’d say the best way to learn your faith is to study the catechism, learn the mass, learn the bible, learn church history, learn all the areas of disagreement. Facing down anti-Catholics may prod you to do these things, but that’s all it is----a prod.I’d agree with that. In my case I believe it to have been a prod supplied by the Holy Spirit.
Facing questions is very helpful—but why in the world should a person who is entering into and learning the faith put himself into that position?
I don’t think she “put herself” in that position, she was put in that place by the challenge of this rascal. So I don’t think we need have much problem with how this all came about.

The fact that Ag_not had the good sense to come here to talk about it shows she is firm in her faith and wise enough to seek good counsel when something like this rattled her cage. It could have been worse…
Too many newcomers—and old hands— take the stance that they are entering into some sort of multi-national debating society
I don’t know about this. I was on my way home to the faith by only a matter of a few weeks when I too was hit by the a-C assault on the faith. My Testimony That is what got me moving and digging into why I believe what I believe.
They miss out on appreciating the fact that they are entering into something timeless, truly beautiful, and life-changing. THAT’S what is important at this early stage.
I disagree here though. I feel that I have a much greater appreciation for the “timeless, truly beautiful, and life-changing” aspects of our most holy faith. At Mass I am focused on the Sacred Mysteries because I know as much as I do, so I think it’s been good for us to make apologetics part of out catechesis.
He’ll be doing that debating stuff for the rest of his life.
Depending on where he lives that may be true, but if so then it is becase there is a need for that apologetics there. 🤷
 
Originally Posted by NPS
“the best way to learn about your faith is to face the questioning of non-believers.”

Really?!? I’d say the best way to learn your faith is to study the catechism, learn the mass, learn the bible, learn church history, learn all the areas of disagreement. Facing down anti-Catholics may prod you to do these things, but that’s all it is----a prod.

==> Don’t ignore the fact that the enemies of the faith are quick to jump on all the controversial issues and that can highlight them for you. Its hard to digest the 1000 page + scriptures and the 500 page + Catechism without plus Chruch history without having something to focus you. You mention learn the areas of disagreement. Well the best way to do that is find someone who has different views…

I don’t think we are in general disagreement here, anyway. I think we both agree that there is benefit to interacting on blogs like these (otherwise we wouldn’t do it). And I agree also, that there is no reason to just go out a pick a fight with this guy… But if it happens, don’t shy away…
 
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