I was raised going to the OF mass and have attended it until I found a local parish that celebrated the EF mass. I had issues with the OF mass back when I wasn’t even aware an EF mass was available to me.
I think it’s wrong and inaccurate to assume “Well, this guy was going into the thing looking for a reason to keep going to a Latin mass”. Wrong. I went to mass to fulfill an obligation. And I felt as if the parishioners impeded my efforts to do so.
I understand that COTH is allowed, and if parishioners feel that’s a respectful way to receive The Lord than so be it. But yes, as I mentioned, people were eating it like they were in a Pringles commercial. One bite. Two bites. Putting it in their mouths mid-stride, with their backs almost to the altar, halfway down the aisle back to their pew. Indeed, those might be simple annoyances rather than concerns.
What is a concern, however, is these parishioners are rude and show a lack respect. Like the young couple sitting next to me. It wasn’t until I scolded the guy that he asked his girlfriend to stop checking her blackberry for messages. Or people reclining in their pews or standing with their hands in their pockets or arms folded.
But I don’t see how anyone can defend standing during the consecration. These weren’t handicapped or elderly people that were unable to show reverence by kneeling. These were simply clueless people. One has to doubt if they are even Catholic (not because the lack of respect, but by the visible confusion on what was going on during mass). How can the priest ignore this?
I went to the OF mass because, after all, a Catholic mass is a Catholic mass regardless of the rite. But one has to wonder if SSPX and FSSP are not on to something. While I completely disapprove and denounce SSPX rejecting the Holy See and breaking communion with the church, their respect and devotion of traditional values is commendable.