There is indeed no gender in God, God himself has no gender in any sense of the idea. In the most profound perspective of our existence (that is our unity in God) gender is then meaningless to us as well. My biological hardware, or psychological if you prefer, draws me to the male sex, where I find a unity and a spiritual bond that can meet my physical needs as well. The physical, emotional, mental and spiritual are all met together then in this relationship. Relationship is the fundamental human need, in fact, it defines our humanity. We need people, for we are nothing except in the light of others. When we find someone to whom we can fully commit ourselves, and therefore, fully complete ourselves, then we have brought forth Life. Yes, before it we were alive in the physical sense, but I believe a relationship with another person has the ability to make us Alive. The physical leads us to the spiritual. My body leads me to men, but beyond the scope of our sexual union, there is no concept of gender. So perhaps we can see the physical as a bridge, as absolutely necessary to the rest of this equation. I do not have sexual feelings for a female, our relationship can be united in the spiritual and emotional but the physical, a vital link, is missing.
OK. You seem to be misunderstanding that the homosexual lifestyle, is not natural…God did not intend for us to act on these desires. They are disordered. Sexual organs were not meant to go into those places. It was meant for excrement. Just as a vagina was meant for , well you know what, and for babies to come out. This is not a unitive act. You are being deceived into believing this. It is like an abuse on the body that God gave us. An abuse on the man that you say you “love”. His body was not meant for that. If it goes on too long, his body could be damaged and so could yours, and you will be incontinent, because THIS IS NOT WHAT YOUR BODY WAS MADE FOR. Sometimes I think it is hard for a person to see reality until they are knocked off their horse and they can take a step back and see things objectively. Unfortunately sometimes it’s met with regrets.
We all struggle with thoughts and feelings that are not for the good of others and are selfish. This is part of our life here on earth and it is a struggle. We all have to make some very difficult choices, in which we need the guidance of the Church that Christ started here on earth. We cannot go on feelings alone.
What about the people who cheat on their spouses. Are they not thinking they just don’t feel “complete” anymore with their spouse? They feel “drawn” to someone else, and this person makes them feel “one”. Until that person doesn’t make them feel that way anymore, and in the meantime, they have destroyed their children’s lives and the life of the person they claimed they “loved” on the day they got married. If we all went about living our lives doing what made us feel “complete” at the time, this world would be complete chaos, and actually it’s just about getting there right now, because people seem to be doing more and more of what makes them “feel good” and not caring about what the consequences of those actions are.
