Yes, Bones IV, besides the contraceptive mentality there is more to the “homosexuality” issue. There is a good marriage and good family that needs to be there for the children from day one of their life. The teaching and uplifting on the family is a MUST. But so the question goes even further, what entails a good family, a good family life. Besides the sacrifice of the mom and dad there needs to be “unconditional love” there needs to be a mom and dad present and giving that to the children and especially to each other. Even in catholic homes how is that showed and have the kids believe it in their hearts of hearts. That basically is the answer. Are the kids getting the message that they are loved unconditionally, that they are wonderful the way they are made, male or female. Both mom and dad have a role in how this message is passed on. Dad by being dad and mom by letting dad be dad and her standing aside to encourage the son to be a boy, be with dad bonding, that being a boy is a very good thing. And all this starts at a very young age. And how is this passed on, this “I am male” or " I am female."
Here is an excerpt from the book, ‘A Parent’s Guide to Preventing Homosexuality’ by Joseph Nicolosi, Ph.D & Linda Ames Nicolosi
pg. 19, chapter 1, Masculinity is an achievement
“A woman is, but a man must become. Masculinity is risky and elusive. It is achieved by a revolt from a woman, and it is confirmed only by other men.” Camille Paglia, Lesbian Activist
"At the very heart of the homosexual condition is conflict about gender. In the boy, we usually see a gender wound that traces back to childhood. He comes to see himself as different from other boys.
Gender woundedness usualls exists as a silent, secret fear–one that the boy’s parents and loved ones only vaguely suspect. The boy has felt this way for as long as he can remember. That differentness creates a feeling of inferiority and isolates him from other males.
For some little boys, the gender confusion is obvious."
