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DelScorcho
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For my wife and I sex is now only for fun… she is now sterilized too to cut down on her period lenth. We are enjoying this time… no guilt at all.Since I am a celibate, your cross is heavier than mine and I acknowledge that and I will remember you and your children in my prayers.
Having a vasectomy is mutilation of the body, the temple of the Holy Spirit, with the intent of thwarting what may be the will of God by preventing the engendering of children. It removes one of two essential components of the marital act, the procreative one. Abstinence is simply not engaging in sexual relations, for a season, and is permitted IN SCRIPTURE (Saint Paul). Even here, however, the Church has said that married couples may not use Natural Family Planning for selfish reasons.
God teaches personal responsibility for sin and for our obligations, one of which is our obligation not to sin against Him.