My Wife is VIRULENTLY Anti-Catholic

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Thanks! Just wanted to make sure.
Was he addressing Catholics or Protestants in the video? I was confused.
There was an altar and a tabernacle, but he kept referencing the altar is usually raised 3 steps so I wasn’t sure where he was speaking.
 
The irony is you are here trying to convert someone to your belief! You just sawed off the branch you were sitting on.
Not true. I try to offer others whatever I can to enhance their understanding, as well as establish my own understanding of things I need to learn. OP asked for advice. That is what I gave. From my perspective only.
 
When Mr Cumbie does a Mission, he invites the Catholics to bring their non-Catholic family and friends, so both!
 
Be rather casual about it, but do talk about why the Catholic Church attracts you - now and then. Maybe you could point out things she believes in that can be found in Catholicism as well as her own religious beliefs.

Don’t try to force your wife, or you’ll end up forcing her further away from Catholicism.
 
I don’t have any advice for you, other than keep praying. I just wanted to say you give me hope and just hearing your words (reading I mean) make me feel so much better. My sister in law says she ‘hates Catholics’ which is obviously not true as she gets on with my mom and dad and me. My brother ( a lapsed Catholic) appears to me to be hearing the call to come back but can’t or won’t go against her. I have always believed I can love my sis in law out of this hate, so I say very little about it and concentrate on fostering a love of God as she is a Christian of some sort (her words are ’ happy clappy Christian’ of a denomination that can’t be found in this country (none of us live in our birth country). So just that you came to be attracted to the Catholic church gives me hope she might lose the ‘hate’ some day and let my brother come back.
 
I did enough research of my own to be convinced that Catholics were sufficiently Christian before we enrolled our child at the Catholic school. We agree on so much more foundational doctrine than we don’t! Although I expected to have to explain to our child why there would be differences between his religion classes at school and Sunday school at our church, I never expected to have to become a Catholic apologist! However, I’ve prayed continually for the last four years, and I am unable to shake the call to serve at this school. I’ve told my wife that I cannot ignore the call of our Lord. Am I alone in this kind of situation? Beyond daily prayer, what advice can you give me?
You may want to show her this video of a young girl…who researched the CC, did not want to be Catholic…the youtuber is Lizziesanswers.


I think she was former Assemblies too…so they may be a connection for her. She is downright forthright and sincere in her videos.
 
Well. Can you give us an update. Has your wife read, listened to the Catholic resources and suddenly saw the light? 😉
 
Saint Mother Theresa of Calcutta worked a lot with Hindu’s, who were vehemently anti-Catholic at the time. Instead of trying to preach and teach the Gospel to them. Rather she took care of the poor and dying. She helped woman who were expecting children, to deliver their children during very tense child birth. Many of the people Saint Mother Theresa of Calcutta assisted were in the lower Cast system. So they were not looked upon as much in society. Thus, did this modern saint of our times pick up the lowly and fallen, the broken and overlooked. Because Jesus said, “What you did for the least, you did to/for me.”

That’s the level of Charity and the Common Good. As my Grandma often recites (and I use to argue against it. But as I hopefully get wiser and maturer, her words now saturate me: “They know we are Christians by our love.”

The OP (I still don’t even know what the acronym stands for.) But the person who posted this topic mentioned his wife is no longer teaching *budget cuts/unemployment), and their child is off to Secondary Education. Looking at something that may ground their child not only in a good foundation of education, but as well be with his or her mom, I thought what a perfect opportunity for homeschooling. There are credible/state certified homeschooling resources that can be used by anyone. You don’t need a degree. Because all the resource and materials are there to help the parent teach their child. And, even better, the man’s wife is a teacher. And would be a marvel at it. In addition, while she homeschools, she could go to a University or which ever degree of education she prefers/needs for Secondary teaching credentials. Or if she really wanted to make the best use of time while homeschooling, she could get all the necessary qualifications for both Secondary and higher to the 12th grade. So with that, once her son or daughter completes Secondary, she can continue to teach in other grade levels. And that means while homeschooling her child, and going to school herself, she is investing in being able to find work at all grade levels. So she is not stuck. Or does simple charity in reviewing the OP’s post, and helping him see a moment in reflection and understanding his wife’s wants/needs better not a good holy/noble Catholic thing to do?
 
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What has this to do with the OP’s problem?
Well, let’s take a look:

Problem: My Wife is Virulently Anti-Catholic
Comparison: Hindu’s were vehemently anti-Catholic (i.e. Saint Mother Theresa of Calcutta’s experience.)

Solution1: They know we’re Christian’s by our love (My Grandma)
Solution2: Mother Theresa of Calcutta who was Catholic won hearts over to Christ just by taking care of people who were Hindu. She did not force them, but attended to their needs. And they fall in love with Christ. And wanted to be Christian’s too. Obviously Catholic one’s.
Comparison: The OP attends to his wife’s needs in the best way possible as a Catholic. Wherefore she can identify the love of Christ has for her. He honestly and genuinely see’s to her needs not to convert her. But to show her Christ’s love through him. And in one way would be the suggestion I offered to see if she is interested in homeschooling.
 
Actually he “liked” my post on homeschooling. His only question/concern was that his wife did not teach Secondary Education. I then suggested calling Relevant Radio and inquiring on adequate/credible resources. In that way, should his wife desire so, he at least has found resources she can sort through, or at least as a start until she finds the right one’s/works for her.

Then I gave him a second post, which he “liked.” And that was a word of encouragement relative to my last response. So, if he did not like it or was not interested, he would’ve not “liked” my post.
 
Your advice is promoting your beliefs. You said it would be disrespectful to try to convert someone but that is your belief. Your belief may be right. Your belief may be widely shared. But you are trying to convert someone to your belief nonetheless.
 
It is quite disturbing when someone hates the Church founded by Christ Himself.
Especially as this is usually because of misconceptions and flat out lies.

But, hey, they lied against Christ and bore false witness against Him, why would we expect differently for His Body, the Church?

Anyhow, perhaps introduce her to actual facts about the Church instead of lies. Say, if she thinks we think the pope is supposed to be God or something, then tell her the truth about that with reliable sources, like the Catechism or or websites that teach the Catholic Faith.
Of course, continue to pray for her.
God bless
 
If I may, to jump in un-announced.

To persuade, to convert, to change the other person’s mind and/or heart.

Well, I think we all do this one time or another. Willingly, or unwillingly against our own words if we say we don’t.

I want to convince my child to stop taking cookies out of the cookie jar. I know that is a simplistic example. But then again, I want to convince them (i.e. convert) them to my point of view. They really do not need the sugar and sweets.

I must constantly tell my child not to cross the street without me or his mother. Or to wait for a crossing guard when he is off to school.

Now, what is the dilemma that she ought to be not anti-Catholic? Is it for safety as with the child’s life, and health? I think that plays along the same lines as the cookie jar/crossing the street scenario.

The man wants her to have the fullness of the faith he has been researching, reflecting, and discovering by way of prayer, into being received fully into the Church. It’s a joy to be shared. But it takes a lot to convince his wife that where he is at, or is going to, is the fullness of the faith, the truth. Is it wrong for him trying to convince her of it? No. For, no less if a guy took his wife to the best ice cream shop in town, that he had been. She only has to taste ice cream and see for herself. He doesn’t need to force her. She will make the intelligible (or taste bud!) discovery herself. But he always encourages her to go, only as it’s out of charity/love.

Even trying to convince someone not to try to convert someone, is essentially converting someone to the belief not to convert anyone (i.e. persuade to change.) Which is an oxymoron proposition/statement, since it’s contradicted in itself, in that statement. Which makes it untrue.
 
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Your advice is promoting your beliefs. You said it would be disrespectful to try to convert someone but that is your belief. Your belief may be right. Your belief may be widely shared. But you are trying to convert someone to your belief nonetheless.
Of course my advice is based on my beliefs. I would be an idiot if it wasn’t. That doesn’t mean I’m trying to convert anybody to anything. You sound like you might have a little chip on your shoulder.
 
Because a bit of humour keeps people engaged in listening.
I thought perhaps it was done in order to make the Protestants sound dumb and uneducated. This makes his Catholic explanation seem like the right answer.
When Mr Cumbie does a Mission, he invites the Catholics to bring their non-Catholic family and friends, so both!
Does he mock Protestants at these events? This method seems like a good way to make smug Catholics laugh at how they are so clever compared to their barely literate Protestant brethren. But I don’t think that posing simplistic Protestant objections in this tone would really be appropriate or effective for a non-Catholic audience.
 
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Because a bit of humour keeps people engaged in listening.
I thought perhaps it was done in order to make the Protestants sound dumb and uneducated. This makes his Catholic explanation seem like the right answer.
When Mr Cumbie does a Mission, he invites the Catholics to bring their non-Catholic family and friends, so both!
Does he mock Protestants at these events? This method seems like a good way to make smug Catholics laugh at how they are so clever compared to their barely literate Protestant brethren. But I don’t think that posing simplistic Protestant objections in this tone would really be appropriate or effective for a non-Catholic audience.
Wow, I watched for 10 minutes and can sure see what you are saying. He appears full of himself and derides his former “stupidity” to gain approval.

But watch the audience, there are just as many embarassed by his antics as there are those lapping it up. Not impressed at all.

There are definitely those people who see fame and fortune in setting themselves up as “travelling speakers/salesmen” when they convert from P to C or vice versa. It gives them a platform they can’t purchase.
 
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This is the 2nd segment of his presentation.
At 1:55 in the video is a good example of his “dumb Protestant impersonation.” (The audio is a few seconds ahead of the video.)
 
Not to be rude about your post from youtube, but I started laughing at the fact the audio is off. It’s as funny as watching a Bruce Lee movie, dubbed.

Not sure if the setup he has there is just for demo purposes. To explain the Mass. But when he said the place of worship shouldn’t be like a Walmart, I guess the gym is okay, where he is making the presentation?

Okay, enough of my silly laughter. I will be humbler. I am guessing with his talent, he is trying to evangelize. Though not perfect. But as best as he can, though flawed he might be. I am guessing. I don’t want to laugh in an arrogant way. And look down upon someone evangelizing. It’s just not my way. But the funny-ness of the audio track being completely off from him actually talking and moving does make me think of those old Bruce Lee movies from times past.
 
This is the 2nd segment of his presentation.
At 1:55 in the video is a good example of his “dumb Protestant impersonation.” (The audio is a few seconds ahead of the video.)
I get the same sick feeling that I get when watching Steven Anderson or Binny Hinn.
 
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