I don’t believe they are praying to their children or husbands.
Similarly with what jon posted, pray has come to have a very narrow meaning today in most people’s minds and usage. Catholic Christians do not believe we are praying to the saints in the narrow meaning you apply to pray and prayer.
Pray used to (and still does within the Catholic Church) be understood by all to mean simply to ask earnestly. This of course has narrowed today by most non-Catholic christians to
Pray=to ask God.
This however, has not always been the case. As you can see below from
Dictionary.com, even today, definitions are included that below that reflect the use of the word pray in the way Catholics use the word “pray to the saints”. #4 is the most applicable in relation to prayer to the saints in my opinion.
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*–verb (used with object) *
1.to offer devout petition, praise, thanks, etc., to (God or an object of worship).
2.to offer (a prayer).
3.to bring, put, etc., by praying: *to pray a soul into heaven. *
4.to make earnest petition to (a person).
5.to make petition or entreaty for; crave: *She prayed his forgiveness. *
6.to offer devout petition, praise, thanks, etc., to God or to an object of worship.
7.to enter into spiritual communion with God or an object of worship through prayer.
–verb (used without object)
8.to make entreaty or supplication, as to a person or for a thing.
The word prayer is the same way, # 7 being that it is simply a petition or entreaty. Prayers under this defintion can be offered to people as well as God.
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*–noun *
1.a devout petition to God or an object of worship.
2.a spiritual communion with God or an object of worship, as in supplication, thanksgiving, adoration, or confession.
3.the act or practice of praying to God or an object of worship. 4.a formula or sequence of words used in or appointed for praying: *the Lord’s Prayer. *
5.**prayers, **a religious observance, either public or private, consisting wholly or mainly of prayer.
6.that which is prayed for.
7.a petition; entreaty.
8.the section of a bill in equity, or of a petition, that sets forth the complaint or the action desired.
9.a negligible hope or chance: *Do you think he has a prayer of getting that job? *
God bless,
Maria