Thanks for the kind words Maria…the world could use more loving comments and concern as you have provided here.
Thank you very much and blessings to you as well.
Dear Goitalone,
Thank you as well for your warm words of thanks. If I did you any good, it was the Lord working through me. Believe me, left to my own devices, I just drown in sin!
I thought of you today as I was reading a book called Healing the Original Wound by Fr. Benedict J. Groeschel. After the Bible, this book, and another book called Arise From Darkness (also by Groeschel) have helped me grow spiritually, more than anything I have ever read. Even though Groeschel is Catholic, his books are applicable to all Catholics, particularly American Catholics and Adventists. The reason I say this, is although Americans tend to often think of the United States as a Christian country, our society is very hostile toward those who strive the Christian life. It seems the more we struggle to live Jesus`s teachings, the more we are mocked by those who do not understand us. Those who peacefully protest outside abortion clinics because they oppose the murder of unborn babies are often arrested. Those who struggle to live chaste lives (whether single or married) are often teased for not being more “liberated.”
As an Adventist, I am sure you have met more than a fair share of people who are disrespectful of your beliefs, and who perhaps make fun of you because your beliefs are different. Sadly, you may have even experienced this at CAF. Catholics and Adventists are both often ridiculed, often for things they believe in, and often due to myths and misperceptions about their beliefs. So this, we have in common. I agree with you fully, that you should worship on the day you feel called to. As Catholics we are blessed with the opportunity to attend Mass every day. I know Adventists often attend church meetings during the week. I only wish all Christians would choose to put God first every day.
The reason I thought of you today, is because in the chapter of the book I mentioned above that I was reading today, Groeschel reminds us that in this life, as we strive to live the Christian life fully, we are never finally something, we are never stuck, we are always growing. It may not seem that way sometimes, but we can all call ourselves “recovering sinners” striving to live the lives of saints. Whether you believe the people we call saints are alive in heaven or not, or whether you choose to ask them to join you in prayer or not, you can still learn a lot by them. Saints were sinners, just like we all are. But they serve as role models who shared in the same struggle and fight we battle now, to remain faithful to God and to live his Gospel. Their faith, hope,charity, and love, for, and in the Lord, gave them the grace to to remain true to their Christian beliefs and this often cost them their life. In fact, all martyrs and saints were not necessarily Catholic! In Japan, there were lots of Christians, Catholic, and nonCatholic alike, who were executed in horrible ways, during the time when Christianity was illegal.
We all need to encourage each other and pray for each other, Catholic and Adventist, and Protestant alike. We all have a lot to learn from each other. Yes, we should teach others what we believe and why, while listening to what they have to say with an open mind and heart. Both “sides” will learn something when this is done with love and charity. Learning about other Christians, and how they chose (and choose) to practice and celebrate their faith, is something we can all learn from. That is why so many Catholics are in the “non-Catholic” religious forum. And non-Catholics need not fear us. All we can do is explain what we believe and why, it is the Holy Spirit that does the rest!
I really hope you will check out the two books I mentioned Goitalone. Your local library might have them, but if not, they are very inexpensive. While he writes from a Catholic prospective, his message is for all Christians.
But again, when the doubt creeps in, or when others are not treating you as Christ calls us to treat our brothers and sisters (whether in your own church or somewhere else), please remember you are not alone. We are here for you, and for each other 24 hours a day! (God bless the internet, literally!).
I hope others will find Groeschel`s books as useful as I have. Once you start reading, you can not put them down!!
Sincerely,
Maria1212