Nice girls move to the end of the line?

[CountrySinger]

Let me guess…Canada? I’ve heard scary stories from the Canadians out there re: the single population.
Myself, I just don’t care anymore. Giving up boys for Lent has given me some serious clarity. I plan on moving to Siberia where there are no men. I will live in a hut and eat snowshoe hares to survive.

But snowshoe hares are cute! Eat some sort of ugly animal.

 

[kelleyclip]

We-ell, actually you should have slapped him, babydoll, (“Officer, I was defending the lady’s honor”) but almost slapping him is almost as good. Sometimes shock takes over and we can’t really think.

I know, I regret not giving him the what for. I was trying to process what he said and what he really meant, that was a weird day…

 

[dakotagirl]

But snowshoe hares are cute! Eat some sort of ugly animal.

You make good point. I wonder if they have nutria (oversized rat-beavers) in Siberia.

 

[dakotagirl]

Keep being yourself…you’ll meet someone someday, who will appreciate it. I promise you, it will happen. But, if you start believing this about women, I caution you, it can cause you to grow bitter about things. Be careful, some women want that bad boy type that they have to ‘‘reign’’ in like a wild stallion…but, many don’t. Trust me, many don’t. *

WG - Reread your wise posts, Ms. Chairman. Be yourself is what I always tell people. Besides, being otherwise is booooooooring. Can’t say it has ever worked for me, though. Don’t get me wrong. I am not bitter, and I am not cynical. And I never put on a jaded act. I’m just angry. I’m the worst kind: melancholic-choleric, meaning I get angry easily and stay mad forever. Some days I get so angry I almost feel like a ladylike puke in the porcelain (no biggie). Anyways, that’s why moving to Siberia where there are no men seems like a phenomenal plan. It would erase the reasons to not be oneself.

 

[sanctamaria17]

Let me guess…Canada? I’ve heard scary stories from the Canadians out there re: the single population.
Myself, I just don’t care anymore. Giving up boys for Lent has given me some serious clarity. I plan on moving to Siberia where there are no men. I will live in a hut and eat snowshoe hares to survive.

Don’t run away to Siberia just yet! I don’t know, I guess I’m just against cold weather…

Me, I’m just moving to Kenya. Literally!

Seriously. I’m glad I’m not dating. All the good Catholic boys I know are taken, the others are terrified of girls, and the others are nominally Catholic and only want one thing! The thing is, I do like nice guys and I try to spend time with them, but they run like heck if they find out I’m interested. Or they don’t love themselves. As for men doing the chasing, it always freaks me out when someone pursues me. I’m not prey. I know, it’s different if he’s a good man who’s wooing you. But I’ve never really had that experience, so I can’t say I “know”.

And then there are the ones who think I act “like a man” because I’m adventurous and want to go after things. Whatever. I don’t have time for a dude who doesn’t appreciate me. I want someone who is also curious about the world and wants to make a difference. We’d teach any children of ours to do likewise and to value their education. Yes, guys, you WANT a strong, educated woman to have your kids, whether she stays home or not!

If I can’t find someone who respects it, I would gladly live out my days as a single lady. At least my friends appreciate me and I’d be able to devote my life to other things.

 

[dakotagirl]

Don’t run away to Siberia just yet! I don’t know, I guess I’m just against cold weather…

Me, I’m just moving to Kenya. Literally!

Seriously. I’m glad I’m not dating. All the good Catholic boys I know are taken, the others are terrified of girls, and the others are nominally Catholic and only want one thing! The thing is, I do like nice guys and I try to spend time with them, but they run like heck if they find out I’m interested. Or they don’t love themselves. As for men doing the chasing, it always freaks me out when someone pursues me. I’m not prey. I know, it’s different if he’s a good man who’s wooing you. But I’ve never really had that experience, so I can’t say I “know”.

And then there are the ones who think I act “like a man” because I’m adventurous and want to go after things. Whatever. I don’t have time for a dude who doesn’t appreciate me. I want someone who is also curious about the world and wants to make a difference. We’d teach any children of ours to do likewise and to value their education. Yes, guys, you WANT a strong, educated woman to have your kids, whether she stays home or not!

If I can’t find someone who respects it, I would gladly live out my days as a single lady. At least my friends appreciate me and I’d be able to devote my life to other things.

I’m sorry for your plight. Truly I am. And kudos on Kenya. You remind me very much of myself when I was younger - very go-getter.
Truthfully, as much as I have striven all my life to avoid ending up with scum, I will probably end up with the first player who tells me he loves me. The challenges of living with the family I have (long stories), plus being somewhat ill, plus otherwise trying to keep my head above water, is just a liiiiittle bit of a strain, to say the least. Some player comes along, and boom - I’m done for.

 

[dakotagirl]

I know, I regret not giving him the what for. I was trying to process what he said and what he really meant, that was a weird day…

You know, Kelley-girl, this is super crude, but whatever; you’re my sister in Christ and I might as well just tell you. In his book Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul John Eldridge says that every man’s heartstrings are “connected to his p****”. Sounds about right to me.

Case in point: whenever I smooch my pet puppy on the nose, he gets the wrong idea and tries to take things too far, too fast. He tries to leap up and kiss me on the mouth - and he’s fast. He’s gotten me a few times, too - eew.

 

[kelleyclip]

You know, Kelley-girl, this is super crude, but whatever; you’re my sister in Christ and I might as well just tell you. In his book Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul John Eldridge says that every man’s heartstrings are “connected to his p****”. Sounds about right to me.

Case in point: whenever I smooch my pet puppy on the nose, he gets the wrong idea and tries to take things too far, too fast. He tries to leap up and kiss me on the mouth - and he’s fast. He’s gotten me a few times, too - eew.

I agree! They need to think more with the big head instead of the smaller one…
What’s weird is that he was super strict Orthodox, yet slightly bi-curious. Not to mention I later found out he had some neo-Nazi tendencies… once I found this out I refused to talk to him. Again, I’m glad it never progressed but what he said to me was downright disrespectful. He was raised better than that, he should have known better… then again he was a self-proclaimed fascist so maybe I shouldn’t be surprised. Though I’ve never heard of a bi Nazi before… I don’t know, he was weird and I’m better without that person!

Good luck with your puppy, they can be very energetic!

 

[CountrySinger]

You know, Kelley-girl, this is super crude, but whatever; you’re my sister in Christ and I might as well just tell you. In his book Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul John Eldridge says that every man’s heartstrings are “connected to his p****”. Sounds about right to me.

Case in point: whenever I smooch my pet puppy on the nose, he gets the wrong idea and tries to take things too far, too fast. He tries to leap up and kiss me on the mouth - and he’s fast. He’s gotten me a few times, too - eew.

One of my neighbors’ dog “loves” me. It’s kind of gross actually, I tried to get my mail, and I had to sprint back to my apartment. Thank goodness my cats aren’t like that. Yay for spaying and neutering!

 

[dakotagirl]

I agree! They need to think more with the big head instead of the smaller one…
What’s weird is that he was super strict Orthodox, yet slightly bi-curious. Not to mention I later found out he had some neo-Nazi tendencies… once I found this out I refused to talk to him. Again, I’m glad it never progressed but what he said to me was downright disrespectful. He was raised better than that, he should have known better… then again he was a self-proclaimed fascist so maybe I shouldn’t be surprised. Though I’ve never heard of a bi Nazi before… I don’t know, he was weird and I’m better without that person!

Good luck with your puppy, they can be very energetic!

Bwahaha!! I’m adding you to my friends list…

 

[_L]

a Bi nazi thats like…a unicorn without its horn thats attracted to centaurs.

 

[Young_Thinker]

Most guys are annoyed when girls talk and talk and talk… guess what, so are we! I for one make an effort not to talk so much so I don’t appear to be another sally rally (not that I look like one, far from it actually). I don’t remember who said it first, but guys tend to notice girls with short skirts and low tops rather than the chick with the zeppelin shirt and jeans (personal reference ). It’s alright though, most of those guys are jerks anyway. Do guys really rate girls on hair color? Are blonde’s really that much better? I don’t resent blonde’s or anything, but I’m curious if that’s true.

This is very awkward for me to say this, but, as a man, I do not look at blondes as much because I assume their color is from a bottle. I also like when a young lady dresses well, but that is often hard to “come by”(I have rather high standards). Suntans, despite being a little unhealthy, are, I admit, also alluring.

 

[Young_Thinker]

Let me guess…Canada? I’ve heard scary stories from the Canadians out there re: the single population.
Myself, I just don’t care anymore. Giving up boys for Lent has given me some serious clarity. I plan on moving to Siberia where there are no men. I will live in a hut and eat snowshoe hares to survive.

Do not say that! I love rabbits(hares and rabbits are virtually the same). Anyway, if any Catholic lady does not think that she will marry, the convent is always an option. Seriously, nuns are needed.

 

[kelleyclip]

Bwahaha!! I’m adding you to my friends list…

Thanks for being my friend- cheers! That was a very hard experience. He and his other Nazi friends started attacking me for being Catholic, and as a result I moved away and switched schools. Now you all know why I can’t go for the blonde hair&blue eye combo.

a Bi nazi thats like…a unicorn without its horn that’s attracted to centaurs.

Thank you for the support, the irony of the situation is quite comical. I’m glad I’m at a point were I can laugh at it. The things they said were very disturbing. Not only did they attack Catholics but they said awful things about Jews, Latinos, Asians, Indians, Native Americans and every other ethnicity and religion you can think of. (this is my main reason for not dating right now, it really blew my trust level) I’m trying not to dwell on it, trying to let it go.

This is very awkward for me to say this, but, as a man, I do not look at blondes as much because I assume their color is from a bottle. I also like when a young lady dresses well, but that is often hard to “come by”(I have rather high standards). Suntans, despite being a little unhealthy, are, I admit, also alluring.

LOL! So in your opinion, blondes tend to look fake or plastic? The modest look never goes out of style, I agree. Suntans are fine if you don’t look orange like an oompa loompa! The olive-brown or golden tans are very attractive in my opinion.

 

[Lost_Wanderer]

Do not say that! I love rabbits(hares and rabbits are virtually the same). Anyway, if any Catholic lady does not think that she will marry, the convent is always an option. Seriously, nuns are needed.

Whoa there, I’d be careful saying things like that if I were you. Who knows how many poor girls out there have given up on romance simply on the grounds that they feel dumped, insecure, or unlikeable for some reason. These girls aren’t fit for the convent trust me. I’d rather see a car devoid of parts than one that runs on dangerously defective ones if you know what I mean.

On the other hand, some people have become so horrified by the lack of people in religious vocations that they become desperate and start targeting every single person they see just for the sake of raising the numbers. If you ask me, that’s a disaster waiting to happen.

Most guys are annoyed when girls talk and talk and talk… guess what, so are we! I for one make an effort not to talk so much so I don’t appear to be another sally rally (not that I look like one, far from it actually). I don’t remember who said it first, but guys tend to notice girls with short skirts and low tops rather than the chick with the zeppelin shirt and jeans (personal reference ). It’s alright though, most of those guys are jerks anyway. Do guys really rate girls on hair color? Are blonde’s really that much better? I don’t resent blonde’s or anything, but I’m curious if that’s true.

Well if it’s any consolation, I wish I’d shut up too. What’s weird though is while my classmates say I’m not very open, my family decries me as a moron who can’t hold his tongue. :\

But you’re right in saying that noisy girls are a turn-off in the long run. You’d have less middle-aged men complaining about nagging wives if it were otherwise.

As to clothing, like all aspects of your appearance, they’re really just meant to catch your attention. The problem comes when (be it guys or girls -.-;; ) folks put waay to much value on them.

Personally, I don’t really care what a girl wears. My mind often has so much in it to think about what’s outside it. However, if I got to know a girl and found her personality to my extreme liking, she won’t be outside my head for long.

 

[sanctamaria17]

I talk a lot…and when I’m tired, my origins are betrayed I get a strong NY area accent when I’m exhausted…especially if I am talking to my dad (he has it more than my mom) or any of my friends from back home. So any guy who ends up with me IS stuck with a sally-rally. And if I become a nun, let’s just say, I’m sorry, Jesus!

A bi Nazi? I’m just not shocked by anything anymore…weird…Yeah, wouldn’t fly with me because I have Jewish ancestry. And a ton of my friends are Latino. I dated someone who was Latino. Girl, if I was with you, I would have kicked his butt!

And Zeppelin shirt and jeans! I don’t feel alone in my Pink Floyd/U2 T-shirts! My mom thinks I should dress more girly. I’m just like, ick, Mom! I’ll do enough of that at my career! When I’m chilling, I’ll dress how I want to dress!

Hon, boys are boys. When a real man comes in, you’ll know. They’re even more amazing because they seem rare.

 

[dakotagirl]

Whoa there, I’d be careful saying things like that if I were you. Who knows how many poor girls out there have given up on romance simply on the grounds that they feel dumped, insecure, or unlikeable for some reason. These girls aren’t fit for the convent trust me. I’d rather see a car devoid of parts than one that runs on dangerously defective ones if you know what I mean.

 

[dakotagirl]

Hon, boys are boys. When a real man comes in, you’ll know. They’re even more amazing because they seem rare.

Doll, you are so right. Recently an old teacher of mine died without any regard for my wishes. The scary part was that he was the Original Chivalrous Dude. Among the other things that that includes, he worshiped the ground his wife walked on, thereby ensuring that he would be one of my heroes forever . Oops, now he is gone, and I don’t believe there are any single knock-offs running around.

 

[Young_Thinker]

Whoa there, I’d be careful saying things like that if I were you. Who knows how many poor girls out there have given up on romance simply on the grounds that they feel dumped, insecure, or unlikeable for some reason. These girls aren’t fit for the convent trust me. I’d rather see a car devoid of parts than one that runs on dangerously defective ones if you know what I mean.

On the other hand, some people have become so horrified by the lack of people in religious vocations that they become desperate and start targeting every single person they see just for the sake of raising the numbers. If you ask me, that’s a disaster waiting to happen.

I am sorry; I was only offering a suggestion!

 

[Young_Thinker]

LOL! So in your opinion, blondes tend to look fake or plastic? The modest look never goes out of style, I agree. Suntans are fine if you don’t look orange like an oompa loompa! The olive-brown or golden tans are very attractive in my opinion.

No, I just ordinarily assume that they are not “real.” As for the tans, I did not mean ones that look simulated. Ironically, make-up(i.e. eyeliner and lipstick) is difficult not to look at.