I’ve been lurking on the Catholic Answers Forum for quite a white, and this post made me decide to actually register and post, because I agree completely and I have an issue with this, and it frustrates me!
I’m trying to grow in my faith, but it’s hard to do that alone. When most of your friends don’t have catholic values it makes you the loner, and you don’t really have anyone to talk to about your faith. I believe that one thing that will really help me be a better catholic would be to be around fellow Catholics, and be friends with them. I’m 22, and at most of the time there’s hardly anyone around my age at mass, and if there is what am I supposed to do? Run up to them after mass and say “Hey let’s be catholic friends!” that would be weird. This would be extra weird if if she were a cute girl (Hey, If I’m going to date someone I’d rather her be catholic. with no sense of community this seems impossible.)
It seems that protestants have all kinds of bible studies and fun little community things in which they are all a family of friends in which together they can grow in their faith. there seems to be none of this for us Catholics. Just like you said joshrp, it’s like we’re all loners in our faith. I see what my “non denominational” friends (or whatever they call themselves) have with their community of religious friends, and it’s beautiful! I want that! but there’s nothing for us. It’s a little disheartening.
I even had a conversation about this with a non catholic friend, and his main gripe with the church is that he feels that it’s not very welcoming (IE no sense of community)