@AlNg Long story short, as I now live in the capital, then I will speak from this perspective.
Yes, they are treated fairly, more justly than catholic Croats in Serbia.
We have them in our parliament, they have all the rights and financial support they need (and one they don’t need but we cannot change it), and all the other things they insist on. But they often mock us in their very popular and only newspapers for Serbs in Croatia, which are, incredibly, funded by taxpayers’ money.
Their representative in parliament has been active in Croatia for 30 years, but worst of all, he is doing the greatest divisions and does not allow reconciliation among the population in some parts of the country. Croats (catholic) in Serbia are on the brink; unrecognized, harassed and scared very often. They have to beg someone to give them a crumb, they barely manage to have any right even though in some cities they are majority.
Honestly, these are not tensions in which war could arise, but there is great intolerance, although there is no reason for it now. Even after all these years, the issues of the Homeland war have not been resolved and until agressor accepts truth and confesses their guilt we cannot as country go anywhere further, we are looking for almost 2000 missing civilians (kids, women, men) and soldiers who went to labor camps or killed in their homes… Serbs have records where are bodies but they do not want to give it to us (once they even tricked us with fake ones they already gave us long time ago). Absurd situations.
When there is no truth then there cannot be any future.
I knew a Serbian lady who was married to a Catholic Croat and they got along just fine.
They are fine because he is normal and she is also normal person who doesn’t live in lie. I also know people in “mixed” marriage and they live fine (most of them because they are not religious and nationality isn’t something they care or they care but are truthful and don’t hate someone because of it, they focus only on person).
There would be, in that part of the world. I was referring more to Americans, and in particular, smaller-town and more provincial people who haven’t traveled much, and who lack cross-cultural competence.
Then my apology because I was giving insight from specific perspective.