In the last 5 years I have never heard anyone use “novus ordo” who did not dislike the OF Mass or at least much prefer the EF Mass. Fairly good sample size too. It’s an invective these days.
Sayin’ it just doesn’t make it so. Even if you say it fifty times. It’s not known invective unless most people think it is invective. Granted that some people may, but certainly some people don’t.
I’ve heard lots of people say novus ordo that didn’t “much prefer” the EF Mass. I’ve done it myself, I believe. Personally, these days I say OF and EF because they seem to me to be more accurate, and they’re easy to type. However, I had no idea until reading this thread that the use of “novus ordo” was considered to be offensive or that NO was considered to be even more so. I still don’t have any evidence that they are offensive to anyone but you, but I’m willing to take your word for it.
I usually attend the OF, which is reverently celebrated in my parish. I also love the EF, which I attend sometimes.
In any case, you seem to have indicated that you interpret the use of “novus ordo” as sufficient evidence that a person dislikes the OF Mass. Then you say that you have never heard anyone use it unless they dislike the OF Mass. It is a bit circular.
Besides that, the virtue of charity would seem to suggest that you should put the best possible interpretation on another’s use of that (or any other) term, until you have heard them actually say that they dislike the OF Mass.
Here are some terms you have used in this thread to describe the phrase “novus ordo”::
“big time red flag in my world”
“very subtle jab”
“bigotry”
“simple ignorance”
“slur”
“known invective”
“NO is even more of an invective”
“just plain rude”
“there will always be people that wish to offend and no matter what they will stick with the “novus ordo” invective”
This is such a long and heated list that you may want to examine the possibility that you are a bit too sensitive to unintended insults. Besides, your list is inconsistent. I mean, if it is “known invective,” then it isn’t a “very subtle jab.” In any case, your contention that people using the term “wish to offend” is completely unproven at this point. There have been several people posting to this thread who have said quite plainly that they are not using it in a wish to offend. Either you think they are lying, or you think they are so psychologically mixed up that they use the term wishing to offend but don’t know it, or you need to change your reaction to the phrase.
I’m sure you genuinely believed that the term was meant to be offensive, but now you know that frequently it is not. Since you know that now, in justice you need to stop assuming that people who use the term wish to offend and attempt to be less offended when you see it. Even if people do mean to offend (and shame on them if they do!), the best way to spike their guns is to refuse to be offended.
–Jen