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Rence
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Thank you very much for explaining the ramifications of pregnancy on top of pulmonary hypertension. I am nowhere near as articulate as you in explaining these things yet, even in writing.I really didn’t think I"d ever jump into another one of these, but people are being way to quick to condem! Doesn’t the Bible mention something about looking to ourselves before making a judgement on someone else??? Having been in a situation (which was NOT an ectopic pregnancy) - I KNOW that there are situations where continuing the pregnancy can kill the mother and there by kill the inutero fetus. It may seem like a wonderful idea to say “if you’d just waited, God might have performed a miracle and (said mother) might not have died and both would be happily at home”. I see no good coming from two deaths. At least this woman has a fighting chance now - and I may just be in nursing school, but I’ve seen enough pulmonary hypertension to know that this can span the gammit of annoying (you have to stay still and probably on one side or the other in bed for weeks or months) to ready to take your life if any more SLIGHT stress is put on the bod (with this and pre eclampsia it is VERY simple with ANY extra stress like say getting up from bed or a c-section for the uterus to seperate and cause MASSIVE bleeding. )From what I’ve read about this situation, and yes this is just my opinion based on my limited medical knowledge but a c-section would have almost deffinately killed the mother due to the extra stress put on her. Waiting too much longer more than likely would have killed her. WIth this situation, you have to remember that this isn’t just someone kind of sick - this is someone who’s diaphram had moved (due to the enlarging size of the fetus) up to 4 cm - (making it harder to breath- the hormones (which after the pregnancy ended would have stopped causing problems) can cause (and it sounds like they did) hyperemia and mucosal edemia as well as tissue edema and capillary congestion. This isn’t just slight swelling or a little cough - this can be a fight for your life (in this case). There are many other things that occur that was giving this mother major problems that ending the pregnancy would have helped and in some cases fixed. It seems simple to say “just do an emergency c-section…” - that c-section, ESPECIALLY in cases with sever pulmonary hypertension and pre eclampsia will often likely be fatal to the mother. It’s very easy to sit there and throwout opinions and say “just do an emergency c-section and save the baby…” but this will likely kill a mother who has been doing all that she can to extend a pregnancy in order to have a viable pregnancy. It’s as though you have no compassion for the mother in these situations-as if the fetus/baby is the only important thing. Once you’ve been in the situation I and many other women have been in, or had a daughter or other relative deal with this, I don’t believe you have the understanding what a situation like this is truely like nor do you have the right to condem - that is left to God to do or not do. Personally, I hope if God forbid, I’m ever in a situation similar to this mother, I PRAY to GOD that I have someone like this Nun to stand up for me. It’s wonderful IF both the baby and mother can be saved, but it’s not always the case. No one seems to care about the “right to life” of the mother. It isn’t always just black and white - there are grey areas. Truely, I don’t agree with abortion in almost every case - but in a case where the fetus is too young to be viable or where attempting delivery (in whatever form) is likely to kill both, I don’t and likely will never see the positive side of continuing such a pregnancy. I am prolife in this situation - pro life for the mother.
God Bless
Rye
