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Ridgerunner
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One does not always know what things have an impact on kids. A parent or grandparent has to consider the kids in everything he or she does. What good is it for me to orally tell my children or grandchildren (as I do) that you have to fight against evil inside yourself and outside yourself with everything that’s in you, when you have a chance, and then fail to oppose somebody like Obama when I have the ability to do it? What good would the words be if my actions don’t support them?I doubt that you’ll have to give an apologia to your grandkids for every election you’ve participated in. But, then, I don’t know how your family operates.![]()
My grandchildren are very knowledgeable of the issues in this election, from the presidency on down to the county collector. And not just the older ones, either. They see things. They hear things. Kids at school express to other kids what they hear their parents or grandparents say.
It is fortunate that we still have a pretty significant right of free speech in this country. I recall reading a book by a man who was part of the Polish resistance to the communists. I remember him saying how scary it was seeing his children go to school and being filled with lies, and knowing there was a crucial point in time when the child would repeat something he was told at school and he, the parent, would be morally obligated, while there was hopefully still time, to say: “They’re all lies, son”, and explain why, knowing he was putting his freedom and perhaps his life at risk in doing so.
That really impressed me, and, knowing I have the freedom to do it unlike that much braver man, I do not lose opportunities to tell the truth to my grandchildren as I did with my children. It’s a great luxury and blessing, and I will not throw it away. There are moral absolutes in this election, and some children know it. If they don’t know it, they should.
Nor will I give up an opportunity to tell them how I intend to vote, how I voted, and why, not that they won’t ask, because they will.
My family operates much as others do. We do things together. Just a vignette that I enjoyed, but which others won’t find particularly interesting. Last weekend, I took my 10-year-old granddaughter out with me to get a “good” count on hay bales “because she does better at math than I did when I was her age, or do now”. (Really because her siblings had recently had more “out of the house” activities than she did.) During it, we had a very nice conversation about the values and actions of other kids; what was right, what was wrong, what was foolish, how the kids in the public school differ or dont’ differ from those in her Catholic school.
It was very nice. We did a lot of math together, too, and ate Snickers bars atop the bales when we were finished and talked about cattle and Indians. We didn’t have time to look for arrowheads, though. One of her brothers found a very nice one not long before, but her dinnertime was coming on and I needed to get her back. It was not difficult to get her to promise secrecy about the Snickers bar, lest her mother get distressed about such dietary foolhardiness so close to dinnertime.
Sorry for meandering so, but you did open the topic, after all.