I have equally been offended and turned away from Evangelical Protestantism by their Closet Alcoholism, rampant Materialism, prosperity theology along with widespread divorce and remarriage… which growing up with many evangelical Friends I witnessed first hand myself.
Good grief I thought that predjudicial sensationalistic stereotyping was on the wane.
Was all of this “skullduggery” something you witnessed form one Catholic…or something you heard from the Pulpit? Certainly you didn’t hang out with these people. If you didn’t then how can you say such things about them?
Cat you just gave me a major Flashback from my youth. I dated a Evangelical Ministers Daughter…his tone about Catholicism made me feel like an African American at a KKK RALLY.
Yes, I agree, of all the Protetstant sects, I think the most difficult ones to grow up in are the separatist sects.
I think they have a hard time retaining their members. Many of the children grow up compliant, but as soon as they taste freedom, they go crazy. Some come back to a church (not usually a fundamentalist church), but many renounce Christianity entirely. And then the parents lose their faith, because “after all, shouldn’t God answer my prayer and return my babies to me? What good is He?”
I believe that it is the fundamentalists that are often among the most vicious anti-Catholics. These groups are often anti-pretty-much-everything, including all the “compromising” Protestant sects.
Please realize that I am speaking of extreme groups. There are many Protestant Christians who consider themselves believers in the Fundamentals of the faith. I am speaking of the “separatists” who do not associate with people outside of their group.
I think it is very hard to be a “missionary” to Fundamentalist Christians. For one thing, they won’t associate with you!
But if a Catholic does have the privilege of associating with a Fundamentalist Christian, it seems to me that we need to be prepared to honor their culture to the point where it doesn’t compromise our faith.
As I said earlier, Fundamentalists generally will not tolerate any kind of bad language. So why not eliminate it from our vocabulary? The Bible tells us that we should not let any unwholesome language come out of our mouth, but only what is for the good of others. This may be difficult for some of us, but I hardly think it’s unreasonable. If cleaning up our language will make it possible to befriend a Fundamentalist Christian and possibly set him/her on the road back to Christ’s Church, then why not clean it up?! We say we are ready to die for Christ–well, then we should be ready to stop saying (or typing) ****!
Obviously we can’t be “fake” people. If we enjoy movies and theater, we are probably not going to have a whole lot of success ministering to Fundamentalists! But I’ve encountered many Catholics on these forums who have given up TV and movies–could it be that some of THEM have been called to be a Light in the Darkness for a Fundamentalist out there?
THurifer2, you asked if I hung out with such people. I’m not sure if you are referring to Catholics who drink or Fundamentalist Protestants who believe all liquor is from hell.
I’ve been around long enough to encounter both Catholic and Protestant hypocrites. But I think that the Catholics are more blatant about it. Most Protestants, at least the Evangelicals, Fundamentalists, and Pentecostals, will be shunned by their churches if they regularly practice a “sinful lifestyle.” In some Protestant churches, this sin may be a true sin, e.g., living with a person and having a sexual relationship out of wedlock. In other Protestant churches like the one I grew up in, a “sinful lifestyle” would be drinking alcohol in any form other than Nyquil. In still other Protestant churches, the “sinful lifestyle” might be excessive swearing and salty language.
I don’t think Catholics practice “shunning.” It seems that Catholics are more willing to live and let live, and allow God to do the convicting. This is good, but it also means that we will see Catholics who are living terrible lifestyles, truly sinful, but still coming to Mass and professing holiness. I know a lot of Catholic young people who are living together and having sex and even babies. Many Protestants see this as rank hypocrisy.
But Protestants will actively SHUN someone, so usually the person who is involved in a “sinful lifestyle” will not be allowed to stick around that Protestant church. They will either be asked to leave or actually escorted out.
Again, having come from this kind of Christianity, you can perhaps understand why I (and other ex-Protestants) are so very adamant that we stop making such a big deal out of practices and music and girls wearing tank tops to church and old people whispering loud before Mass, etc. **We’ve seen these issues become Big Deals that literally split churches, broke hearts, and destroyed faiths. We are very afraid that we will see it happen in the Universal Church. **
I think many ex-Protestants might agree with me and my husband that “the Catholic Church is our Last Refuge.”
Both my husband and I have decided that if this Church turns out to be a lie, then we will be atheists. So we really don’t want to see The Catholic Church split apart over a song, a guitar, a hand vs. tongue, or OF vs. EF. This kind of thing scares ex-Protestants to DEATH! And maybe that’s why I keep venturing onto the “Traditional Section” of CAF–I feel compelled to warn you all about what will happen if you refuse to trust your God-ordained leaders. You will split.