I guess I can see why you think this, but the fact is what was previously posted is true regarding Catholic theology: God is not gendered the way humans are. Yes, the Second Person of the Trinity became Incarnate as a male, and yes due to cultural/linguistic/etc. customs the most common forms of address to the Persons are male…it’s still a theological truth the Catholic Church teaches that God is neither male nor female.
I don’t think “it” would be preferable or appropriate, as I think it would take concepts like personhood, Creator, etc. out of the thought process. We have many many ways of addressing God that are appropriate. None are sufficient by themselves.
Again, if this were absolutely true, there would have been found, in the last two thousand years, an appropriate ‘genderless’ form that would refer to God, reflecting that dual, or no, gender aspect of Him.
…but nobody did.
It’s a ‘by their fruits’ thing. In two millenia the languages spoken by believers has changed immensely; if you don’t think so, try handing a copy of Beowulf written in the original Old English to an American ninth grader–and that’s just ONE thousand years of change. Everything has changed; tenses, vocabulary, syntax—and the Romantic languages such as Italian and Spanish have retained their habit of assigning gender to everything, including all inanimate objects.
So…the teaching may be, in some esoteric manner, that God has no gender. However, He is still assigned one; and by being assigned one, the judgment about gender has been made. There is no Thing above God. No Thing better, no Thing more worthy–so God is assigned the male gender by a group that claims He is genderless.
Think about that one for a moment.
Now me, I believe He most definately IS male. Father literally as well as in respectful address; Father (as Christ called Him) to the Son.
May I suggest, for your meditation today, considering that by considering that God is genderless, and continuing to address Him as ‘Father’ (male) that you are more surely denigrating the role of the female than you would be if you actually taught that He IS Male, and thus addressing Him as Father is fact, not an expression of using the superior address?
Where is there a role for women in the eternities, when even a genderless deity is addressed as “Father?”
As it happens, some of the early Catholic fathers didn’t think that women actually HAD any future in the eternities. Thomas Aquinus figured that women were “defective and misbegotten” and that male children were the result of good, “active power of the male seed” and female children were the result of a 'defect in the active power." (Summa Thologica, Q92, ar. 1.)
I mean, it’s TRUE—the guy determines the sex, but as prescient as Aquinus was in this matter, his attitude towards it leaves something to be desired. It was, however, a VERY typical attitude of the church throughout its history.
Today you do not allow women to hold the priesthood. You call God “He.” You claim that He is genderless—has it occurred to you what that MEANS in terms of women? Even a GENDERLESS deity has no use for women?
Dang. That’s harsh.
True, Mormon women don’t hold the priesthood either. True again, we address God as “Father.” But we do so because we believe He IS male. It is no insult to women for me to refer to my son as ‘my son.’ He’s a guy.
By the same token it is no denigration of women to address God as “Father,” because, well…He is male; the Father. It’s not an honorific we choose to bestow upon Him because we think that “Father” is more respectful title than “Mother.”
We believe that men and women are equal in His sight, but that we have different roles; women do not hold the priesthood–because we don’t need it. Our roles in religious life are different. Men cannot do what we do. That does not make THEM lesser, just different, and I appreciate the difference.
…and you will never catch me looking down on a man because he can neither give birth to, nor nurse, an infant, nor have the feminine outlook on life that women have. They are different, that’s all. We need them. They need us; we are not complete without each other.
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