He was saying that
neither of these is appropriate to send anyone to.
When I was Protestant, my friend who was trying to convert me was wanting to prove to me the superiority of the TLM over the OF, because I had been telling her about the music and reverence at my Protestant church, and contrasting it with the guitars and folk music at the OF Mass that I happened to be attending at the time.
So she took me to my very first TLM, and while we were there the priest’s cell phone went off in the middle of the words of the Consecration,
and he answered it.
She was absolutely
furious with him - I think she would have strangled him right then and there, if she could have.
I poured salt into her wound by mentioning that cell phones were not permitted in my Protestant church
at all - they were to be left at home or in one’s car outside. I suggested in all wide-eyed innocence that perhaps they should implement such a rule at her TLM church.
What I learned from that experience was that abuses and lack of reverence are not “features” of the OF; they are “features” of the human race, and the TLM is not always quite the remedy that it is advertised to be. (Things were also not always rosy at my Protestant church either - one time, somebody got the bright idea to use non-standard foods for Holy Communion, which caused something of an uproar at Session - another time, the Communion cloth was not properly ironed, and people could see the creases in it from all the way at the back of the Church. That one took a few weeks to die down, too.)