In this day and age, it is important for middle schoolers on up to have a phone. It doesn’t have to be a smart phone with internet access, but at least one that they can call you or their mother (or other trusted adult) if they are in trouble or you can call them if need be. I hesitate to say this, but my sweet friend was adament her 11 year-old granddaughter get a phone. When I asked why, she said that "times are different and even if you know where your child is, they may need to get in touch with you and she then when on to explain a bit about domestic terrorism, school shootings, and all the ugly things we don’t want to think about for our grandchildren or children. Even if one homeschools, there will be opportunities that it’s best for a middle school age child to have their own form of reaching their parents, be it at a church function, ball game, etc. Of course, flip phones with only calling and texting access come pretty cheap, so that shouldn’t be an issue. Sorry to be a Debbie Downer, but I felt the need to point that out…especially for daughters and who they may encounter, even when you assume they are with adults you can trust.