steve b –
Let St. John himself speak to this matter of mortal sinning … from the whole Book, to give us context.
1 John 1:5-9 THIS IS THE MESSAGE WE HAVE HEARD FROM HIM AND PROCLAIM TO YOU, that God is light and in him is no darkness at all. If we say we have fellowship with him while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not live according to the truth; but IF WE WALK IN THE LIGHT, as he is in the light, we have FELLOWSHIP WITH ONE ANOTHER, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from ALL SIN. If we CONFESS OUR SINS, HE IS FAITHFUL AND JUST, AND WILL FORGIVE OUR SINS and cleanse us from ALL unrighteousness.
…so the above says we [laity & clergy] can/should confess ALL sins [mortal and venial]
1 John2:1-3 My little children, I am writing this to you so that you MAY NOT SIN; BUT IF ANY ONE DOES SIN, WE HAVE AND ADVOCATE WITH THE FATHER, JESUS CHRIST THE RIGHTEOUS; AND HE IS THE EXPIATION FOR OUR SINS, AND NOT FOR OURS ONLY BUT ALSO FOR THE SINS OF THE WHOLE WORLD.
1 John 2:23 No one who denies the Son has the Father. HE WHO CONFESSES THE SON HAS THE FATHER ALSO.
1 John 3:9-10 No one born of God COMMITS SINS; for God’s NATURE ABIDES IN HIM, AND HE CANNOT SIN because he is born of God. By this it may be seen who are children of God, and who are the children of the devil; WHOEVER DOES NOT DO RIGHT IS NOT OF GOD, NOR HE WHO DOES NOT LOVE HIS BROTHER.
1 John 3:18 Little children, let us NOT LOVE IN WORD OR SPEECH BUT IN DEED AND IN TRUTH.
1 John 3:21-22 Beloved, if your HEARTS DO NOT CONDEMN US, WE HAVE CONFIDENCE BEFORE GOD, AND WE RECEIVE FROM HIM WHATEVER WE ASK, BECAUSE WE KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS AND DO whatever pleases him.
[so, we [laity & clergy] … can confidently come before God, and receive our petitions via our confessions / meditations / prayers].
1 John 4:15 WHOEVER CONFESSES THAT JESUS IS THE SON OF GOD, GOD ABIDES IN HIM, AND HE IS IN GOD.
1 John 4:17-18 In this is love perfected with us, that we MAY HAVE CONFIDENCE FOR THE DAY OF JUDGMENT, BECAUSE AS HE IS SO ARE WE in this world. THERE IS NO FEAR IN LOVE, BUT PERFECT LOVE CASTS OUT FEAR. For fear has to do with PUNISHMENT, AND HE WHO FEARS IS NOT PERFECTED IN LOVE.
1 John 5:13-15 I write this to YOU WHO BELIEVE in the name of the Son of God, THAT YOU MAY KNOW THAT YOU HAVE ETERNAL LIFE. And this IS THE CONFIDENCE WHICH WE HAVE IN HIM, THAT IF WE ASK ANYTHING ACCORDING TO HIS WILL HE HEARS US. And if we know that HE HEARS US IN WHATEVER WE ASK, WE KNOW THAT WE HAVE OBTAINED THE REQUESTS MADE OF HIM.
so again, we can ask Christ for forgiveness of venial & mortal sins … and receive Absolution from our High Priest].
Would you have John contradicting himself?
1 Jn 5:
16 If any one sees his brother committing what is not a mortal sin, he will ask, and God * will give him life for those whose sin is not mortal. There is sin which is mortal; I do not say that one is to pray for that. 17 All wrongdoing is sin, but there is sin which is not mortal.
If you aren’t sorry for your venial sins, can my prayers for you supplant your will for forgiveness with God even though you aren’t sorry? I don’t think so. You need to be sorry for your own sins in order to be forgiven by God.
Now what about mortal sin? John specifically said, that merely praying for mortal sin is not enough. iow Jesus taught this and the HS is reminding John of what Jesus taught… [Jn 14:26].That’s why Jesus gave the power to forgive and retain sins to those He ordained. That’s why James taught, call in the priests of the Church and confess your sins for the forgiveness sins. The context is confession to the priest. If one does all that Jesus commands, then all the other passages you quote make sense.
If prayer alone was enough for the forgiveness of mortal sin there would be no need for what John said, and there would be no need for what the Church says
**1457 **According to the Church’s command, “after having attained the age of discretion, each of the faithful is bound by an obligation faithfully to confess serious sins at least once a year.” Anyone who is aware of having committed a mortal sin must not receive Holy Communion, even if he experiences deep contrition, without having first received sacramental absolution, unless he has a grave reason for receiving Communion and there is no possibility of going to confession. Children must go to the sacrament of Penance before receiving Holy Communion for the first time.