So you thereby limit the power of God?
So God doesn’t get what He wants? How is that omnipotent? He wants something that He can’t have?
As others have pointed out: See how differently God thinks than we think? We think that being all-powerful means getting everything we want. God thinks that being all-powerful means creating other beings who are capable of freely giving and receiving love, even at the cost of allowing them to freely choose something else.
God is omniptent, but God isn’t a control freak. God willed that we have free will, and being also omniscient, he foresaw that we would choose to use our free will to try the impossible task of making ourselves omnipotent within our limited selves, rather than choosing to be one with God in the omnipotent unity of divine love. God made us, even though he foresaw we would need Jesus, who, unlike us, “did not deem equality with God something to be grasped at”. We, though by rights we belong to God, having no being or capacity apart from God, do grasp at the power that belongs to God alone. How is it that we can complain, when God, who by any measure of right may do with us as he pleases, was pleased to make us in his image, even though this would require that he become one of us and, as a human, surpass us in the obedience and love which by God’s perfect will would make us holy, happy, and capable of the love for which we were made? He gave us a share in his own life, and we complain because the nature of divine love requires that we have to freely choose it in order to live in it? He freely chose to endure the consequences of our impossibly self-centered choices, so that we might yet choose life, and we feel we have standing to complain? As the Scripture has it: whose way is it that is not fair?
We are born thinking we are the center of the universe, that everything revolves around us. Certainly even the most secular humanist in the world will agree that this attitude, if not abandoned, leads to a life of emptiness, frustration, and pain. The reality of original sin is the easiest thing in the world to believe: not that we are inherently evil, but that we are inherently resistant to admitting what our relationship with the rest of creation actually is.
Incidentally, while the Catholic Church teaches that any number of people have joined the kingdom of heaven as saints, the Catholic Church does not teach that any particular person has been damned. This includes the unbaptized, even those who would seem to have rejected baptism up until the moment of death. We teach what the consequences of rejecting God’s ways are–and the laws of love are, by the way, as immovably built into the nature of things as the law of gravity–but we are not judges of who has or has not gotten past the point of all hope.