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In the Catholic Church, there are necessary, essential conditions of sorrow and repentance on the part of the human creature in order to properly complete the process for God’s forgiveness.
This is called “conditional forgiveness”.
Here is the way that the priest who did the Bible study explained the apparent contradiction between unconditional love and condtional forgiveness:
If we are unrepentant (refusing to forgive people) then we will not know God’s forgiveness, for the God we project will be based on our own behaviors and perceptions. God always forgives, but we will not know God’s forgiveness until we repent, until we forgive everyone we hold something against.
So it is with all sin. If we do not repent, then we are not in control of our sin. When we are not in control of our sin, our good conscience is going to continue to self-condemn. When we are self-condemning, we perceive that God does the same. But God is not condemning us, He is the Father of the prodigal son.
Au contrare! God has given every one of us a conscience! There is absolutely a reason to seek God’s forgiveness, because everyone with a normal conscience will feel very guilty when doing evil. What does God do with the adultress? Jesus shows the people that it is their consciences that condemn her, and that our consciences condemn all of us. Jesus showed the resentful that she is in the same condition that they are. Jesus shows that God’s love is deeper than all of the conditions, He forgives the woman. Did He ask if she was sorry first, if she was repentant? No, but her conscience, if formed normally, will continue to be a burden until she repents.The dark side of unconditional forgiveness is that an individual may bypass the importance of obedient love in a spiritual relationship with the Creator. (CCC
When a person equates the conscience with God, then telling them that God forgives unconditionally does not make sense. If their conscience tells them that some act is wrong, then they will avoid it, regardless of whether God loves them unconditionally or not. Do people ever say, “I can do lots of bad things, because God loves me anyway.”? If the person is doing evil under this belief, then he is lacking in empathy, and his conscience if malformed. Does a person need to “learn” that God loves them conditionally in order to develop empathy and a normal conscience? Absolutely not.
This means, of course, that God is asking us to be more forgiving than He is. It means that we can be more forgiving than God, and therefore more loving than God. The catechism that I received is that God always forgives us.My point is simply that we need to recognize that while we can forgive others unconditionally, God, being our Creator, forgives according to His process. We, as creatures, cannot decide how we want God to forgive us.
And here is the deeper point, again. We are called to forgive unconditionally. Have you done this, granny? Your silence on this question continues to compromise your testimony. Have you forgiven? Spirituality, granny, is more than a book. I know what the CCC says. Spirituality is more than a “head” thing, it is also a “heart” thing. I am here in this forum because I like to discuss spirituality. Spirituality is based in our relationship with God. If you have not forgiven everyone, admit it. Such admission is the first step in reconciliation, The Sacrament of Reconciliation. Talk to your priest, granny. I am hearing from your posts that you are very hard on yourself
Sometimes, granny, our conscience tells us to not forgive someone. For example, our conscience may say that it is “wrong” to forgive the unrepentant. This is very common. Does your conscience tell you this?